Another week, another Friday Fictioneers. As always, a huge thank you to Rochelle Wisoff-Fields, author, illustrator, and all-round lovely person, celebrating her fourth anniversary as leader of this group of characters. Thank you to Peter Abbey for supplying a photo that took me back!
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Word count: 100
Genre: Memoire
Friendship

Copyright Peter Abbey
We met on her birthday. September 18, 1981. She had just turned 17.
How many times I entered the locker room to the sound of “Daaaaaaa-yo! Me say Daaaaaaa-aaaa-aaaa-yo! Dale no come ‘coz she’s gone to French!” sung at the top of their lungs. Roxanne and Caroline, long-time friends.
Somehow, it became Roxanne and me.
Never could I have guessed how deep our friendship would become: love, heartbreak, marriages, births of children, death, heartache, divorce and laughter, so much laughter. There for each other through thick and thin.
And then it wasn’t. A fence went up. And now it’s too late. She’s gone.
Friendship, it’s an important part of our lives, it makes us laugh, it makes us cry. I often think of those relationships that I’ve lost but I always look forward to the new ones that come in and shine a light into my life. Thank you Dale for coming into mine XOXO
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It so is and it lasts as long as it will/should (I have to believe). I cherish your arrival into mine too! xoxo
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Dear Dale,
Why do I suddenly hear Harry Belafonte? So much story in so few words. I know I’ve said this before, but you’re very good at saying a lot with little. Once more you’ve tugged at my heartstrings. Good job!
Shalom,
Rochelle
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He’s always been one of my faves!
High praise from one I admire so much! Thank you.
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Ah a good piece. Friendship comes in all shapes and sizes. I’ve lost friends gained new ones. But have several long term friendships that i am very thankful for.
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Thank you, Laurie! I know what you mean and I am as well… and I’m also grateful for the ones I’ve lost…
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Well done, Dale. You’ve captured friendship, loss and possibly regret in a few words. Nice job.
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Thanks George!!
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Friendship burns so bright then the ship sails!
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So true… unless you are lucky and find one that lasts…
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This true, wonderful when you can xx
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Wonderful piece Dale. You said it all.
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Thank you so much, Annet! Been a while since we exchanged on each other’s blogs! Hope you are well!
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I know! I almost dropped my WordPress account over the summer but it seems that I got a second wind with Benji’s blog. It’s good to be back.
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So happy you did!!
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It’s great to be in touch again!
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Yes it is!!
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I can imagine we’ve all been there: the leaver of a friend relationship and the left behind. Great observations in this well spoken piece, My Lovely. Xoxo RRR
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So true. It is particularly difficult when one goes and dies on us before we ever know the why….
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Yes, Lovely. ..I’m with you on that one.xoxo R
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I know you are, my darling friend! xoxo
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people do move on. in a way, it’s good. it prevents our cup from getting full so we can have space for new beginnings.
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Wise words, Plaridel!
I agree with you
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Such a heartfelt piece Dale. Love it ❤
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Thanks, Jo. So very glad you did!
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That’s so sad, Dale. Sometimes this happens with relationships and you can’t even work out quite how. But thought I’m not a big one for fate, sometimes people are in our lives when we need them, then we let each other go and that’s fine too. We can’t keep hold of the past. Lovely writing 🙂
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Thank you, Lynn! I actually agree with you, not always easy!
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Relationships never are 🙂
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Sad after everything that a friendship can dwindle and die.
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So true…
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So sad – except the memories are hers to keep.
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Absolutely!
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Now, you’ve got me singing that song. (One of my favs BTW). I’ve seen the friendship train crash more than once. Sometimes due to something silly, and other times because they bound for distant depots.
I loved the way you told the tale and let us share the laughter and the pain.
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Thanks so much Russell! Was so funny to walk in and hear those two nuts singing at the top of their lungs – others be damned.
Yep. Circle of life of sorts…
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Friendship, loss and missed opportunities. Nicely crafted.
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Thank you, kind lady!
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As always, you have a touch for poignant and deep story.
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Oh thank you so much! That means a lot to me.
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Heartbreak indeed. So sad.
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Oh, that last line got me right in the stomach. So moving. Thank you for sharing your writing, Dale!
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Thank you for reading my writing, Tammy!
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Oh! There was I enjoying a blast of Belefonte then bam. Fickle friendship. But life to short we have to treasure the ones we had and the ones we have. Nice job. 😇
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If you could have heard them… crazy broads! Yes. I treasure the 20+ years we had… she died too young. 43.
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It’s amazing how many people float in and out of our lives. You caught the passing of time, and dear ones, very well in your story. Kudos.
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Thank you, Alicia. So glad you thought so!!
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That’s exactly how it can be, and you describe it so vividly. And then it wasn’t… yes, that happens. Burning bridges sometimes is necessary even if it is painful. Great story, Dale.
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Thank you, Gabriele! It can be so painful – especially when we don’t know the whys. Ah well, c’est la vie!
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It must be tough to lose such a long friendship with all those shared experiences
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It is, and it was a long time ago. All just came back to me…
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You often write autobiographical stories
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I do. You don’t approve.
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That’s good. I include lots of references to my real life circumstances too. The last one I wrote wasn’t about me but it was set in someplace I’m quite familiar with
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I can’t help myself! I keep thinking next one will be pure fiction and then…😊
I like what you write.
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Thanks. it’s good that we enjoy keeping track of each other’s stuff
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Indeed!!
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That sudden end to something we value is very shocking.
Sad tale.
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Thanks. Much appreciated!
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I’m so sorry.
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Thank you
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As you know, I’ve written a bit about this, and get it. It never gets easy, seeing a friendship die. So much bleaker than some other losses, for the senselessness of it all. Sorry you have been there too, Dale. xo
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I should think any of us who have a few years under out belt, and have been lucky enough to have friendship in the first place, must have felt this to some extent…
Right back at ya! xoxo
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