50 Happy Things 2018: Bloggers Unite to Flood the Internet With Gratitude
Somehow I seemed to have missed participating in this wonderful project last year. Couldn’t understand why so I went to look at my past posts and realised that I participated two years ago without officially joining in. Well this time, I am. Thanks Dawn Quyle Landau for officially inviting me to play with you! I think it is important to focus on what makes us happy and what fills our hearts with gratitude. Happy is so much easier to attain when one actually focuses on it rather than on the negative and sad.
This is a 15-minute-timer exercise so the point is to simply start the timer and type without over-thinking it. So, in no particular order and some seemingly simplistic things, here are the – would you look at that? – 60 things that make me happy and fill me with gratitude.
- My boys
- François
- Winter
- Warm clothes
- Zeke
- My sisters
- My family
- The closeness of my family
- Friends
- Having friends over and being received by them in return
- Holidays as an excuse to just have fun
- Cooking and Baking
- Boucherville, my home town
- Photography
- Writing
- Friday Fictioneers
- Walking Zeke, no matter the weather
- The golf club where I work – otherwise wouldn’t have met François!
- My co-workers
- My friend – François L. who offered me my job though I have zero experience
- Good neighbours
- My home
- My strength, not just physical but mental
- My resilience – seems to be everyone’s favourite word for me so I might as well embrace it
- My ability to see the bright side of any situation
- My ability to do what needs to be done
- My cooking skills
- Blogging Buddies
- Rochelle – our almost daily FB chats, occasional Skype sessions and her trusting me with her words
- My car – it permits me to go where I want
- Spring – new beginnings along with the stench 😉
- Music – all kinds
- Reading – so many genres
- My bed – so comfy!
- The possibilities awaiting me in the future
- Jean-Louis, for inviting me to keep him company in Punta Cana, no strings attached
- Facebook, for helping me keep in touch with far-away friends and family
- Cook in Tuscany experience, for making my dream come true and giving me new friends
- Being able to welcome far away friends to my home
- When my boys do what I ask after only one request!
- Warm clothes so I can enjoy our frigid winters
- Concerts – classical, rock, folk – I love ’em all
- Introducing François to English Canadian music
- Having a handy-man boyfriend who will help me fix this house to sell it
- My ability to easily adapt to various situations
- My bathtub for two – a luxury I must enjoy while I am still in this house!
- My gas stove/oven, which allows me to create my concoctions
- Mick’s organisational skills, which help me find and fix (or get fixed) things that need fixing, even though he’s been gone for 3 years
- My office space which allows me to comfortably create with words
- Even when Zeke doesn’t get to go on a long walk with me, he is still happy to see me.
- When my boys let me know they do care
- Autumn, for its crisp air and colours
- Snow in the winter, which keeps my world a bit brighter
- My sense of humour
- Delicious food at a wonderful restaurant with great company
- Netflix – for when there is really nothing on TV!
- Having my mother closer to us after years of being 2 hours away
- Employment insurance, which allows me to stay home until golf season starts up again
- François’ kids and mother, who accepted me on first contact
- The ability to feel love and gratitude
Nice list you have there!
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Thank you!
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Great list Dale:) And i’m sure the list will keep on growing longer and longer..thanks for being part of our happy list too!
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Thanks, my friend! You are a huge part of my list…
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Dear Dale,
Reading your list I realize I didn’t include my one and only brother. Gasp! #29 made me grin. Wonderful list. So much fun to share. I am grateful for your friendship and our almost daily chats, too.
Shalom,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
I am sure I’m going to slap my forehead with some – like my wonderful nieces and nephews….
Ah yes #29 is an important one…
Lotsa Love,
Dale
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PERFECT!
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😘
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Aww the ability to feel gratitude – definitely adding that one to mine next time.
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A wonderful list by a wonderful lady 🙂 You are such a positive person, Dale, it’s an inspiration. Of course François’ kids and mother accepted you on first contact. How could they fail to do otherwise? x
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PS My English is terrible today. …”How could they fail to do otherwise?” I think that is nonsense. What I’m trying to say is how could they do anything other than accept such a wonderful lady!
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LOL! Betwixt you and I, I think I’ve used those exact words, probably scratching my head wondering if that was proper or not. No matter, I loved what you meant.
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Thank you, so much, Sarah. I was just telling Rochelle that I should have added you specifically to the list. My bad. Next year 😉
Aww.. thanks. They are all three wonderful humans. I see why François is such a nice guy… xoxo
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I’m not offended 😉 We are still friends, Dale! I’ve not even done a list, so you’ve excelled in comparison 🙂
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Phew… 😁😘
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#40…good one! lol
As they all are.
Yes, Friday Fictioneers, what a wonderful group of friends ❤
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Ha Ha! Well… it’s such a rare occurrence…
Yes, we are part of a fabulous group!
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What a great list. I need to do this too. I’ve come out of the past year thinking there was little to be happy or thankful for but I need to examine things to know that I’m wrong. I’m going to make this list so it keeps me focused on the good things out there and in me. Happy new year!
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That’s great, Corina! Add your link to Dawn’s post!
Looking forward to reading yours..
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Ahhh! And Happy New Year to you and yours!!
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Dale, I’m so glad you made it official! I love your positivity and bright smile, and it comes through in all of the wonderful friends and loved ones on your list. There are so many happy moments here–– which, have certainly earned! It’s a joy to see you sparkle, and I’m so grateful you shared with the rest of us! Thanks for joining in for the 4th annual #BloggerUnite for #50HappyThings; I’m grateful and happy! All the best in 2018!
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Thank you for hosting It, Dawn! I love these things and am glad you enjoyed my list. Sparkle, eh? Cool beans!
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Sparkle indeed. xo
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Garsh !! 😶😗 xoxo
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Nice list … but I’m bummed that I didn’t get my own listing. Then again, I’ve complained about that before.
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I KNEW you were gonna complain! I came *this* close to adding you… then decided to see if you were gonna say something! 😎🙄😍
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Of course … it’s tradition for who knows how many years! Glad I didn’t let you down.
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You never do, Frank!
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Love your list Dale, esp the Zeke references.
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Aww. Thank you, kind sir!
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So much friends and family filling your lovely list. Happy New Year! (My favorite might be “When my boys do what I ask after only one request.” It gives me hope my kiddos might grow that helpful!)
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Thank you, Jen! Each little one counts! And foe me to mention It, it is a rare occurrence…😎😉
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Lovely post! #40 is great!
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Thanks! 😉😁
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It is so wonderful when kids comply with the first request! I love that it made your list!
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It seems so small but man… when they do it. Whoa!!! Break out the champagne!!
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Any surprises.
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In my list?
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Yes.
I will at times perform a thirty second write exercise. The results are often surprising. Kinda like a gesture drawing but with thoughts instead of a pencil. Pencils, are those things with lead, wrapped in wood with a pointy end. People once used them to write and draw on paper.
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I LOVE using pencils. ‘Course I know what they are as I ain’t no spring chicken. It is an exercise I want to do more often- writing with a timer…
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I see a lot of Grannies texting their brains out in parking lots and malls with nary a pencil insight.
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Ha ha Ha! I’m not a granny yet… I do like the techno but at other times, old school all the way…
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Lovely list Dale 🙂
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Thank you so much!
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My pleasure 🙂
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