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I’m a Fire Sign Dammit – Stop Trying to Put Out My Flame!

“Life is not easy. We all have problems-even tragedies-to deal with, and luck has nothing to do with it. Bad luck is only the superstitious excuse for those who don’t have the wit to deal with the problems of life. ”
Joan Lowery Nixon, In The Face of Danger

OK. Universe.  We gotta talk.  I dunno what I said to:

  1. piss you off, or
  2. indicate I needed more water situations in my life to, I dunno, cool off?, or
  3. request a shit star, to continue to fly over me, sending me challenges

But it’s enough, okay?  I’m good.  I understand.  I got it.

Let us move on to another vibe because, quite frankly, I just may crack.

It was enough for me to come home from vacation last April, just before my birthday, to a leaky pipe in the boys’ bathroom leading to a bulging ceiling, leading to a ruined floor.  It was more than enough for me to go into the basement, walk halfway into the room and have my socks soaked because there was a crack in my foundation and my carpet was wet almost all the way across.

These two items have been fixed.  In August for the dining/office rooms thanks to insurance coverage, the other, mostly bone but still kinda a work in progress thanks to François’ hard work and my hard cash.

Excellent.  We good.  I call the real estate agent, he comes over, we sign the paperwork, he sends that little fiend to tell me how to make this place pretty and lifeless.  I tell him I am getting new a new couch (today, some time between now and 10:00 pm) and that I’ll call him so we can have the photographer come in.

However.  We NOT good.  Are we? No, no.  You see, we seemed to have some sort of blockage in the boys’ toilet.  So, François, ever the handyman, passed the fish through it, felt something go and thought, cool beanz, we good.   But we weren’t were we?

No. Still not flushing satisfactorily so I talk to my cousin Marc, also a clever handyman, who says, yanno, maybe there is something stuck in the toilet itself.  Alrighty then.  Off comes the toilet and we (royal “we”, I did nothing) check and find nothing.  However, the “lead” in the pipe is all wonky so François decides to fix it and gets all the necessary stuff.  Does what needs to be done and we good, right?  No. We not good.

As he was finishing up the basement, he notices it’s wet under my new vinyl floor.  Pulls it up and.  Shit.  This seems to be coming from the toilet all the way upstairs.  Cleans up basement, removes toilet.  Hmm… something does not look right.  He now feels we need to bring in a plumber.  He has one and calls the guy.  Two days, three days, four days.. OK… screw him.

I say, “OK, Bumstead.  Ya done what ya can… Time for ME to bring in the professionals…”  I’ll call the next morning.

Yesterday, (the next morning) I went downstairs to get something or other and notice there is paper on the bathroom floor.  Open up the toilet.  Really?  Could no one have advised me that they blocked the toilet before leaving for school/work/whatevs?  So I flush and plunge and get the stuff down but this baby is NOT flushing properly.  Bloody hell.

Call four different plumbers, leave three messages.  The last one actually had a receptionist/admin person who said I was in luck, she could send a guy right away as he just became free.

Enter Samuel.  Nice kid (well, dad of two younguns but still a kid to me ;-)) decides to work on the basement toilet first.  Yep… doesn’t like the way it flushes so he uses the fish.  Nothing comes out.  Fishes a couple of times until we decide to take the damn thing off and see if we can see something stuck.  He sees a plastic something and can’t reach it.  Using every tool he can think of, a piece comes out.  Dang.  I know EXACTLY what it is.  It is the cover forone of my wall heaters.  Or part of it anyway.  Sam looks at me and says, “I’m guessing there is a second piece.”  I nod yes and the search for the second piece begins.  He went to get his special camera and could see it stuck to the side.  No matter how much he shoved and prodded, it was not budging.  We brought the toilet outside, took out the hose and tried to use the water pressure.  Nope.  Sigh.  Finally, after putzing around, the second piece finally comes loose.

All this took a good two hours.  Crap. (Yeah, yeah, pun intended.)  Puts the toilet back on and it’s time to move upstairs for what I originally thought was the “big” job.  He takes one look at the hole and says… “Your pipe is cracked.”  WTF!!  He says he’s going to have to change the section of the pipe and, to not break the tile, will have to put a hole in my dining room wall.  He looks at the time and says, how about I come back tomorrow morning so you don’t have to pay over time.  Uh. Yeah!

Fast forward to this morning 10:30-ish.  Samuel comes in, brings his tools and gets to work.

The hole he had to make…

The pipe he cut out…

One of the cracks that were made by someone who worked really hard to remove the lead…

The hole where a screw was inserted – probably when the kitchen remodel was done in ’98, removed and the hole left untended…

And, newly fixed pipe.

Excellent.  We good?  No.  We not good.  The toilet has a crack in the base.  Ahhh  f&*?%!  He takes it off the seal (another wasted bit of cash) and we look to see if it’s only on the surface or on the inside.  Of course it’s on the inside too.

So.  Yay.  Call François, ask him if he feels comfortable installing the new toilet now that everything else is good and he says yes.  Sign and pay the bill and send Samuel off to his next client.

Now I have to buy a toilet.  Check on-line, find the best price is across the over-pass from my house and make my way out.  As I am looking at them, I realise they look kinda high in the back.  Call the house and ask Willow to measure the floor to the stupid shelf (no, I am NOT removing the shelf.  The bathroom was painted when previous problem was fixed.)  30 inches.  Every fricken toilet is 30 to 31 inches.  Really?  Are you shitting me?  (Again, pun intended.)

So, there is one.  Yes, count ’em.  One.  Only one toilet that stands at 27 inches.  Just so happens to be on sale to boot.  Sorry.  I lied.  There is another that stands at 28″ but it is $500 and you have to buy a seat. Doesn’t even come with a friggen seat!  What the hell is that all about?  Plus the base is only 10″ while all the others are 12″.  Bloody hell.

Get the “bathroom” guy to help me put it on the trolley and make my way to the cash.  Go buy groceries and come home.  Look at the box in my trunk and in the list of contents, I see nothing about the bloody seal.  Ah come ON!  I take no chances, drive over the overpass and spend an extra $3.

François arrives and gets to work.  Measure everything.  The toilet will fit… Yay.  Oh.  The tube connector doohickey is too long!  Samuel had installed a brand-new one.  François goes into Mick’s “Plumbing toolbox” and finds another the right length.  We good?  No.  We no good.  The connector itself is metal and the new throne is plastic.  Sigh.  Off he goes to the store to find another.

Looks to me like it may still be a tad too long but what do I know?  Is it supposed to curve like that?  Do we actually give a rat’s ass at this point?  No, we do not give a rat’s ass.

I think the new toilet looks just fabulous, don’t you?

There are still a few things to do to make this house chic and swell.  A new added job of closing up that new hole and painting it.  Thank you, Mick for being the best keeper of every-friggen-thing so I have a little jar of paint.  And maybe I have to thank you for your part in that, Universe.

So I beg of you, change my ju-ju.  Allow the rest of this journey to selling this house go super smoothly and we good.  OK?







33 thoughts on “I’m a Fire Sign Dammit – Stop Trying to Put Out My Flame!

  1. Q,

    This post is umm . . . flush with adversity. I don’t know where to start! Oh okay! I do know where to start! No seat for a toilet? What? Really?

    Hey, I love that quote! It sets the scene perfectly! Or imperfectly? Both.

    Is Dagwood popular up North Way? I remember reading it when I was younger. Back when we all still read the comics, before they moved to TV and video games.

    You really hit on it, this scene setting that needs to be done when selling a house. It makes the place look lifeless alright. I was fortunate to sell my house privately to a neighbor, avoided all that hassle for sure.

    I debated whether to attach a video to the end of this comment. “Oh Danny Boy”. Because yanno . . the pipes . . the pipes are calling.

    I’m sorry, I’ll go now.


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    • B,

      I am killing myself laughing now! “…pipes are calling indeed… ” LMAO

      Right? I mean, I know you can buy a seat when your’s breaks but buying a toilet sans? I don’t get it.

      I used to read the comics daily when I still got the paper and Blondie and gang were always there.

      This scene setting is giving me a major pain in the derrière. Very fortunate for you. Yanno, when I sold my last house, there was none of this staging bullshit and all my family pics remained up on the walls… Times change…

      Oh, and glad you liked the quote. I debated adding a video myself.


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  2. You said the troubles started after vacation last April, right? Think I just heard the universe giving you one last flush as your year of plumbing problems ended. 😉

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  3. I couldn’t laugh. I was wincing too much. You write of your travails with great description and even some humor, which is not easy. OUCH. I think the universe, or at least the house, is “talking” to you. It’s not just the people who have a hard time saying goodbye to a house they’ve lived in for a while. The house has to show its discontent at being marooned, doesn’t it?
    I hope your toilet troubles are behind you now (just a small pun) and the rest goes smoothly…

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    • Well… the way I see it, better with me than with the new buyers who can come after me with “hidden” defaults…
      And, bite your tongue. I do have to move into a new place once this baby is sold!!

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  4. Great job with this. It was really a well-written narrative. I felt like I followed each mini-clusterf___ and chimed in with the corresponding curse words.
    I read this last night and woke up this morning and recalled dreams AKA nightmares involving realtors.
    Toilets, water, and indoor plumbing. I think I could give up electricity before I have those three. But when it rains, it pours.

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    • Glad you enjoyed my recounting of my, um, events and I very much appreciate your cursing along with me in solidarity.
      I like to be optimistic and that all the woes are behind and stay within this house…that the next One is a-okay!
      Does it ever!

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  5. Dear Dale,

    When my dad passed away we inherited his house. Thinking this was an upward move to a better area and a nicer house, we gleefully (well maybe not gleefully) packed and moved. It seems that all of those little things that hadn’t been attended to waited for its new batch of unsuspecting tenants. Our first week there, the hot water heater went out and the living room draperies (my mom’s pride and joy) ripped…rotted actually.
    You do need a break, my dear friend. It’s been a shitty week for you. Wish I could flush all your troubles down he drain for you. May this coming week bring floods of joy and happiness rather than floods of the other sort. Meanwhile, you wrapped up your tsuris with a shiny bow and made us laugh. Raising my coffee…”L’chaim.”



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    • Dear Rochelle,

      I think it’s even worse when it’s transferred from the family. When we bought my parent’s house there was SO much to fix!

      Yes, I definitely do. It’s been a shorty few months so I’m ready for a shift in circumstance. I love that I can actually do that: turn my tsuris into entertainment 😉 foe my readers.

      Thanks, keep on relaxing and lotsa love,



  6. If it makes you feel any better, I’m an aggressive flusher. I broke the flush handle on the toilet with all my aggressive flushing. The Viking went to buy a new handle but came home with a whole toilet which led to a whole bathroom reno which led to 3 days of running to the neighbors to use their facilities. Long, hideous story short – I attend a support group for Aggressive Flushers now. I’m 723 days without incident. Woop Woop!!

    On another note……I’m not sure what we’ve done to deserve this, but apparently shitty things are being thrown in our paths. Soldier on, dear one and may your days be filled with luck and good fortune.


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    • That is hilarious! Well, not running to the neighbours to use their facilities, the the rest of it…

      Thank you, kind lady. That’s what I’m doing. And why I have implored the Universe to send me the positive stuff from now on!


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  7. Oh my goodness, Dale. Hope the universe, the house, all the toilets who apparent communicate with each other on some sort of invisible crappy pipe channel–but not well. . .well, hope your week has improved.

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