Good Wednesday morning! Is it as HAWT and HUMID in your neck of the woods? Lord love a duck… I know, I know… enough about the weather. Still… While thanking my lucky stars I have air conditioning and a pool (not that anyone but me wants to venture outside to use it…) I cannot help but feel for those who are melting away in their hot domiciles without it.
Oh! And to all my American friends, Happy Independence Day! Enjoy and stay safe!
Thanks as always to Rochelle for hosting this here party weekly (even when she has a houseful of guests!) And thank you to J. Hardy Carroll for the use of his photo.
Come on, what do you see when you look at the picture? Does a story come to mind? Then by all means share it by clicking on the blue frog below!
Joie de Vivre
Some people just can’t be contained. Life throws them curve balls that would leave others rolled up in a ball crying on the bathroom floor.
Blair was such a guy.
He believed that life was an adventure filled with wonderful things. Life was good and what you made of it was your choice. You could focus on the negative, and no one was exempt, or focus on the good.
“One person’s lost leg is another person’s lost child is another person’s lost puppy,” he’d say. “No one can judge that one person’s pain is worth more than another’s.
“Let’s dance!”
Is that Tony Blair?
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My husband’s real given name(though he loathed to use it) was Blair… 😉
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Not Tone then. I’m reassured
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No, definitely not Tony 😉
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Awww….Dale ❤
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💜💖
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Nice perspective on life, let’s dance. Well done Dale
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Thank you, Michael. It is all about choices, isn’t it?
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It definitely is Dale
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Some guy that Blair 😉
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I like to think so… kinda has the same philosophy as I do… 😉
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Q,
Love this!
It speaks to the differences, and to all the beauty we might cull from those differences if we simply allow for them to breathe. Once again, you transformed brevity into brava. THAT is how you beat this heat!
Peace and dancing to your own drum beat
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B,
So glad you do!
I’m glad you see it this way; it is definitely my philosophy.
Beat this heat! If that is all it took…
Peace and allowing everyone to dance to their beat!
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It’s the only way to go.
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Could not agree more…
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Wow. HAWT IT IS!
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Seriously!
😀
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Everyone has to deal with what he has to deal with. The right frame of mind is all, though I hardly think a lost puppy exactly qualifies as bad. Today’s like the U.S. equivalent of what Expo ’67 was about , I think?
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To a person who has experienced no loss till the puppy…for them it is the worst thing ever… but it was an over-the-top example.
Not sure what you mean with the Expo 67 reference?
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wasn’t that the milestone of Canada’s independence from England, sort of like ours in 1976>?
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Oh… in the sense that it marked the centennial… was wondering where you were going with that.
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The fact that I can remember having seen Expo ’67 signs and advertisements as a kid proves I’m so very old
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Yes…😉
I was 3… just sayin’!
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I was 8
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So… you are NOT old 😁
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Way back in the day a guy with a fibre-glass leg said to me (up at the bar), Let’s dance. We dated for a good 18 months before our lives went separate ways. I had known him for years. A neighbour. He’d lost his leg to cancer at age 15, which really destroyed his dreams of playing the big league football. But it didn’t stop him enjoying his life. Yea, dance on.
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Such a lovely story, Crispina! Yes, some dreams might have to be altered but doesn’t mean all life is over…
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Indeed not.
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Nice perspective on life and loss. Blair seems like a pretty amazing guy.
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I think so. Life is full of challenges, how you deal with them will reflect on your quality of happiness…
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That’s the best attitude for getting through life’s vicissitudes.
I could use some of your heat. My furnace is still running.
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So very true, Alice.
Ahhh… you’re down under, are ya?
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Lovely and true! Here’s to freedom and independence, resilience and just-the-right temps for all. Na’ama
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Right on, Na’ama!
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Somehow there is something uplifting about such a guy… but sometimes you have to allow yourself to mourn just a little I think.
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Absolutely. And I’m sure he did… just didn’t stay there as it serves no purpose…
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interesting to end with let’s dance – kind of abruptly took us in a new direction after the “another man’s…” pondering –
well done to do that build up – to ponder – to DANCE – in 100 words
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Thank you, Yvette. Glad you thought so, I, too, felt it was rather abrupt! I think it’s because he felt it was a waste of time to wallow in negativity when there are much more pleasant things, like dancing, to do (even if it is with one leg… 😉 )
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ahhh – that colors it even more –
very nice ending
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Like his attitude. We need more of that. Nicely done, Dale.
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Could not agree more, Susan… The man has my philosophy, big time!
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Let’s dance, indeed 🙂 That’s the spirit!
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Yessiree!
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What an inspirational and positive story to start my day!
Thanks dear and stay cool 😍
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Thank you, my friend. You too!!
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That’s quite the positive attitude! I think I’d find it a bit wearing after a while, though 🙂
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Doesn’t mean you can’t have moments… just don’t wallow in them 😉
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Yes I love this 💜
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Thank you! 🧡
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Hugs 💜
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I lost a tooth the other day, Just thought I’d mention it!
Click to read my FriFic tale
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Poor dear… you ok now? 😉
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I’m managing thank you!
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So good to hear…
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Great attitude, ‘your’ Blair has – and sometimes even I get a bit annoyed at those ‘ever positive’ attitude. Because I’m a bit like that too, my glass being half full etc. etc.
The photo however freaked me out 😉
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Indeed… I think it’s impossible to always be “on” but I like to think in general I am…
Yeah, that photo was one that brought many a war story… No way in hell I was going that route.
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People like that can bring a lot of joy into a lot of lives. You’ve written a lovely positive story – thank you!
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Thank you so much, Penny. I like that.
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Great perspective. They sure can dance.
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For sure!
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Great reasoning and conclusion. My cousin’s wife became a paraplegic in a monstrous automobile accident through no fault of hers. You should see her dance through her days!
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Good for her! Some people just do that “woe is me” thing and it doesn’t do them a bit of good, I say.
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Pessimists are a bore – how refreshing to meet an optimist!
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Yes!! 😀
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I like this man. A very uplifting story. Thanks, Dale. (And I can tell by your lovely smile you tend to think your cup is always full – except when someone else takes a wee sip!)
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We all need to get infected with guys like that. It’s a great outlook on life. If we were surrounded by such people, the world would be a little sweeter.
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I like to think so…
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words to live by. well said.
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Could not agree more!
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Lets dance! Love such a positive story with heart enough to fill everyone’s glass. Great stuff Dale
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Thank you, Laurie. So glad you liked…
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I’m reminded of the old quote, “I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.”
Outstanding piece, Dale. And happy belated birthday!
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Thank you so very much, Russell.
High praise indeed! 😘
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Blair has a great attitude to life. I liked him!
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So do I!
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Thanks for an upbeat story Dale about the mysterious ‘leg’. A refreshing take on the prompt. Well done.
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So glad you enjoyed it, Francine.
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I love the positive tone in this, whatever life throws at you; you can either bat it away or embrace the pain. Either way, life goes on. Your story is a great metaphor about acceptance and recovery.
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Thank you, James. It is what I was trying to convey.
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Dear Dale,
Leave it to you to write such an uplifting story. Love the positive spin and the outlook you exude. I can just imagine the twinkle in Blair’s eyes. Well done.
Shalom,
Rochelle
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PS I’m slowly plodding through the list. 😉
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P.S. Amazingly… 😉
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Dear Rochelle,
Well… you know me… I can’t help myself 😉
And yes, there must definitely be a twinkle…
Lotsa love,
Dale
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I loved the leg/puppy/child part. So true. Pain is pain, wherever it comes from. Lovely story, Dale.
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Thank you, Sandra – it really is that, isn’t it? Pain is pain. No one can tell you that what you are feeling is not pain (or “big” enough to be considered as pain).
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Very nicely written, Dale! I love Blair’s attitude on life. I have to admit, I struggle to have the same, but try to at least. And I do love to dance! =)
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Let’s dance. indeed. The world needs more of THIS!
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I could not agree more!
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One mans pie is another mans poison, let’s eat; a similar less active metaphor but none the less optimistic in outlook!
It’s a design for life I try to carry myself. Pessimists bore the hell out of me
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I do like that metaphor! Might have to use it in the future (if I remember it).
Pessimists drive me to distraction… and seem to be attracted to my optimism so they can suck it out of me… I have learnt to step aside so they don’t connect anymore…
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Run away! Run away! As they said in the holy grail!
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Yes!!
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Are you the Messiah?
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Hah! Hardly…
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Blair’s my kind of guy…just roll with the punches ( and write too! ) Love it!
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He is so my kinda guy, too… coz I’m that kinda girl… 😉
So glad you loved it!
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🙂 !
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A grand philosophy of life for sure!
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Could not agree more!
It just so happens to be mine… 😉
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your middle name could be “Joie de vivre”… 🙂
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au fait, ça me fait “bizarre” de te lire en anglais… 😉
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😘
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I love this kind of spirit and aspire to it – nicely done Dale. I am willing to bet it’s not as hot or as humid as over here in Delhi as we say not even hell could be 😀
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So very glad you do and that you enjoyed it.
I’m sure not!!
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😀
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We all need someone like Blair in our lives. 🙂
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I think so too.
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Blair has such a great outlook on live – one to emulate.
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He does indeed! More should try…
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What a great life lesson!
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Thanks!
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Sometimes it is all attitude. Good story, Dale! 🙂
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Absolutely!
Thank you Sascha
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Very uplifting, lovely writing Dale. I love the last two sentences. So very true, and the best choice ever.
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Danke shön, Gabriele.
Glad you liked it.
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Lovely story and very uplifting. What a wonderful attitude Blair has. Good for him!
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Thank you. So glad you liked
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