Crispina’s CCC challenge is one that I enjoy as it is open to pretty much anything! All she asks is that we not go past 150 words. To see just what you can do, click here.
What is Normal?
“She doesn’t get out enough!”
“Has she no real friends?”
“She should try to be more sociable.”
“Must she always be drawing on her pad?”
“I really don’t think this is good for her.”
“This is not normal behaviour.”
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Why can’t they just leave me alone?
They don’t understand that I am happy.
Who determines what is normal?
I have a terrific on-line community.
Not sociable! I participate in Comic-cons and expos. Seems to me that takes sociability.
I just wish they would stop judging me and accept me for who I am.
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Jennifer’s thoughts disappeared as she sat by the pond, drawing in her ever-present pad, the latest of many she had accumulated since she was old enough to hold a pencil. How lucky she was to have parents who encouraged her, allowing her to become a successful artist, earning a living doing what she loves.
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This video is close to my heart as my niece created this as her graduating piece. She dedicated it to both my late father and late husband, both who inspired and encouraged her. This video also won her a trip to Switzerland!
It looks like you are writing about me. Beautifully written.
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Thank you Indira. I have two incredibly talented nieces (sisters) – this could have been either one!
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So nice.
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🙂
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I like the split perspective. And what a great reminder as we encounter others.
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Thank you! And people always seem to have their opinion on what is right, We all get “turned on” but different things and no one is better than the other.
Glad you liked.
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I also really enjoyed the split perspectives. Brilliant writing! I love the line, “who determines what’s normal?” Something I’ve contemplated especially as I’m getting older. Your niece is incredibly talented.
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Thank you, Brenda. Who does, indeed? 😉
Isn’t she? So is her sister! Next time 😁
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You excel yourself, Dale. Love the way you’ve given parents’ v youngster’s pov. And the animation … wow. Relay my impressediness to your niece. Brillig, both of you. Gold stars all round
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Thank you do much, Crispina.
I just love this one of hers. And all the others she’s done!
So very very glad you liked. 😊
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Much impressed, and I said. I’ve done an insy-winsy but of animation, years upon years upon years go, so my interest was piqued from the start. But then to see what … not just the expertise in the work, but the humour. That has wonderful humour.
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If you ever have a moment to spare, go and check her other videos… The Messenger is particularly poignant. Her classmates, bless them, did not all get it.
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Yea, will do. Did I miss the link in your post? Probably; it was early am.
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On the video, you see the word Vimeo – if you click on that, you’ll have all of hers listed on the right 😉
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Yep, did that. Did a visit. Did quite a few plays. Would have left likes and comments but that required signing in, and I’m supposed to be otherwise occupied this afternoor. But I shall return, particularly when my daughter is here, cos I know she’ll love these short animations too
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Sweet!!!
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More smilies
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😀
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I had a moment to spare. So … carpe diem etc. And now I sit here with huge beamy smile splitting my face. Loved the Too Late Prince, too. Your niece has a bubblesome source of humour in her. Something to be always treasured.
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Yay! I am so glad you did! She has a wonderful sense of humour indeed. And she is wise beyond her years as well.
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The humour dos suggest that. 🙂
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🙂
The Messenger is none to humourous, though 😉
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Yes and no. It is a humour take on the old saying.
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I dunno about that… but hey, we see what we see! And there is definitely nothing wrong with that.
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Its the fact she took a commonly said phrase and showed it as literal
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😉
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I like your poem of accepting and acceptance, but I love your niece’s video. I’m happy for her that it was well-received–and that she won a trip to Switzerland for it! Wow!
The dedication is lovely and special, too.
My older daughter now creates her art on a tablet, too.
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Thank you, Merril. Isnt it wonderful. I could have put up a few… funny she is now more focused on graphic novels. Multi-talented, this one.
How wonderful for your daughter as well.
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❤
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Dear Dale,
This is a subject near and dear to my heart. Love the video and already feel a kinship to your niece. Normal? “Normal” is a setting on a washing machine. People shouldn’t be labeled like pickles and jam. So well done. A beautiful write, my friend. You just keep getting better and better.
Shalom and lotsa hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
Don’t I know this one would strike a chord with you… glad you enjoyed the video.
I love that ‘normal is a setting…’ and even more ‘labeled like pickles and jam’ – such great expressions!
Thank you so much my friend.
Shalom and lotsa love,
Dale
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This is a great piece! Teens, more than anyone, seem targeted by this well-meaning but misguided attitude. They’re finding out who they are and pressures to conform are insidious. So good that she has supportive parents. Mine always encouraged my creative endeavors, but there was a lot of coercion, too.
Your niece’s video is amazing! Loved it!!
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Isn’t that so true! The comments are from well-meaning places but unfortunately also short-sighted. I think she would have become an artist no matter what. She is compelled to do it.
So glad you watched and enjoyed the video (one of many I love).
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Incredibly gorgeous post this one. I love the video, and what a marvellous work to have dedicated to your Dad and Husband. Talent is obviously well spread throughout the family! xx
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Awww… thank you, Peter!
And to have it showcased in a contest in Switzerland to boot. Her sister shall have to be in a future write… she’s just as talented 🙂
And thank you xo
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This. Is. Fantastic!!!
I love the story you added and I absolutely ADORE the video! What talent! And what a lovely tribute! (I know I’m using lotta exclamation points but … hey, that’s what they’re FOR!!!).
Wow.
Wow.
Wow!
🙂
Na’ama
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Woot! So glad you enjoyed! At lease I think you did 😉
Isn’t it wonderful? Should you be bored, if you click on the word Vimeo, all her videos appear on the right. She is now more focused on writing graphic novels and drawing but oy, such a talent. “Quirk” she recorded in my sister’s classroom….
Lotsa love,
Dale xoxo
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OHHHHH … me gonna run to a professional meeting I gotta lead but I’m gonna be checking out that vimeo page later today–your niece is uber-talented!
And … yeah, I kinda sorta maybe liked it a little … 😉
XOXO
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Woot! Woot!
She is… And so is her sister. This was Kellie’s graduating animation… https://vimeo.com/66577243
XOXO
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Wow, this is fabulous! I don’t know much about the nitty gritty of animation but I know enough to realize how much work goes into this and how talented they are to be able to convey so much with so little (body language without eyes or actual body beyond a paper-cut-out-shape is no small feat!).
Fantastic!
Thank you for sharing these!
🙂
Na’ama
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Thank you for taking the time to watch them!
xoxo
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XOXO back!
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Lucky indeed. Nice one, Dale. 😊
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Thank you, John.
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Powerful!
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Thank you.
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Q,
What a perfect way to use this challenge. Because you’re right, too many people put the ‘ab’ in front of normal because it doesn’t jibe with their idea of what ‘normal’ should look like. Never mind that there is no real world definition for the thing. Normal is, as the news term goes . . a fluid situation.
You’ve touched on the variables that exist (and in this case flourish) in the human condition. Everyone lives a different normal. The gift, which you possess, obviously, is in appreciating the differences.
Brava and Booyah and thank you for this wonderful reminder.
B
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B,
Thank you, I am so glad you think so – those who put the ‘ab’ in front of normal have their own preconceived notions of what normal is… We can’t all fit in the same basket – how horribly dull would that be?
Yes. Everyone lives a different normal that works for them. And makes this world we live in way more interesting.
Gracias, mi amigo querido.
Q
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Gotta love the preconceived notions, and yes . . it’s everywhere and all the time. Like that.
Hell, if people just tended to their own gardens and stopped pruning the meaning of every little weed in someone else’s, the world would be much better off.
MUAH!
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Yep gotta love ’em.
Love how you phrased that, my wordsmith extraordinaire! We’d be so much better off…
MWAH!
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Blush worthy praise from the Queen of Challenges. Noted, taken, appreciated! 🙂
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You know me. I tell it like it is. And please do! 😊
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Nothing wrong with telling it like it is. If more people told it like it is . . . okay, I won’t get back on that soapbox. I’ll save it for when I lecture the young ‘uns . . .
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Nope. And accepting compliments graciously is a good thing too…
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Fo shiz, Miss Q. 😉
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😉
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I love the sentiment of your story. I love the story of your niece’s video do very talented 💜💜💜
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Thank you, Willow. She and her sister, too! 🧡🧡🧡
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Sounds like a very talented family… Well how else could they be anything else with an aunt like you 💜🥂
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So very kind of you to say. Methinks it comes from my father 😉 🧡🥂
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Maybe but you are a very artistic lady too💜
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You are too sweet. 🧡🧡
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No just honest 💜
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Your writing is wonderful. The video is AMAZING!! It seems your niece has ⚡️💥in her blood!
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Thank you, dear Resa. She is wonderful as is her sister! She has my old man’s blood in her veins 😉
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Wonderful!!
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Love it … but not sure which I like better, the story or the video. Cheers to you and your niece.
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Thank you, Frank. Glad you liked both 😉
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Well done…both you and your niece. Congrats to you both.
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Thank you, my friend.
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Dale! That video is so amazing! your niece is so talented. She is fortunate to have family that encouraged her it means so much to be accepted as you are.. I love this post.
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Thank you so much, Violet! She and her sister are so talented.
I am pleased as punch you love!
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I was that girl too! Your niece is very talented Dale.
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Why am I not surprised?
She is. As is her sister!
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