“It’s interesting how we can connect so deeply with friends so different from ourselves. In fact, perhaps it’s these differences ultimately bonding us the most. The opportunity to expand our horizons.”
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When one is curious, doors open to worlds that would have remained unknown. This is not a bad thing for those who are content in their own little rented space and have no desire to expand their horizons. I am not one such person. As a matter of fact, I am far removed from that type of person. As a matter of more fact, I am easily bored by those contented persons. I know, this is not a nice thing to say. I choose to surround myself, either physically or virtually, with people who have something to teach me – even if they have no clue that they do.
I never considered myself a writer. Sure, I kept a diary on and off over the years. Then a diary became a journal, also kept on and off (I can’t tell you how many “theme journals” are lined up with but a few pages scribbled upon). Still, I would never have used that term until quite recently. After certain new writer friends told me to stop. I’m not fighing it any more. I am a writer.
Like my diary/journal days, I started and stopped a few times. I’ve used Blogger, https://dalesdelectables.blogspot.com/ and Tumblr (discovering to my shock as I searched for my account that I had not one but two different blogs here!) https://dalesstuff.tumblr.com/ and https://dalesdelectables.tumblr.com/.
How I ended up in the blogosphere is beyond me. I cannot say how I discovered Blogger, Tumblr or even WordPress. Yet here I am. I think I truly became a blogger/writer here at WP on August 12, 2013, when I wrote my first post. Preparing for this post, I got lost in the dark hole that is the internet only this time it was my own stuff!
“The good writers touch life often. The mediocre ones run a quick hand over her. The bad ones rape her and leave her for the flies.”
― Fahrenheit 451
My curiosity with writing led me to “meet” unbelievable numbers of talented writers of all genres. Writers who don’t realise how much they challenge me to do better, to try new things. Things like different styles of poetry: haiku, double etheree, cleave, etc. Heck, I didn’t know there WERE styles of poetry beyond the twelve-syllable rhyming doohickies (OK, I jest, I know this one is an Alexandrine). Trying to find my voice in short stories, keeping my personality involved. How cool is it that in these new writer friends, I have been asked to beta read their works?
“A good writer possesses not only his own spirit but also the spirit of his friends.”
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I landed on my post I’m Inspired which truly sums up what makes me tick. I am a Life Enthusiast who is always on the quest to move forward and learn.
“One ought, every day at least, to hear a little song, read a good poem, see a fine picture, and, if it were possible, to speak a few reasonable words.”
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Speaking of song, I am no musician but I love music. My curiosity has led me to go see bands I’ve never heard of in all sorts of genres. I won’t lie – there is stuff I really can’t get into like Hardcore Punk or Black Metal. I just sit there in a daze wondering when my hell will end. But that’s me. If you love it, then by all means, ignore me! Thanks to friends, I have discovered wonderful music like Manu Katché or the band we saw last Friday called Snarky Puppy. To think when my friend Dany suggested it, I thought it was something like black metal – well, wouldn’t you with a name like that? How wrong I was. A funky, jazzy, world music, rock mélange of music that I would have missed out on, had I been the sort to not want to go outside of her box.
“Music expresses that which cannot be put into words and that which cannot remain silent”
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I have promised myself to go to an opera. At least once in my life. I know I am being influenced by the movies but if Ronny can bring Loretta to the Metropolitain Opera House (Moonstruck) Edward can bring Vivian to the San Francisco Opera House (Pretty Woman) and both those women be moved to tears, maybe I can, too!
Let’s get some things straight here:
1. You are a writer. Blogger, whatever. It’s writing. You write. Pretty much daily. Others read your work, pretty much daily. That’d be a writer. Writer, by Merriam Webster, is defines as “one who writes.”
Yep. Is you.
2. You ain’t boring. (Nothing more needs to be said about that, so there it is)
3. I’m glad you write, and I’m glad you follow really interesting people who write well because I just stalk you all over WP and find good bloggers. (Not because I’m lazy, but because you have good taste, so why invent the wheel?.. 😉 )
4. “Life Enthusiast” is a perfect description for you.
5. New York has an opera. I hear it is pretty good, too. …
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XOXO, your bloggy-dventerous writer friend.
Na’ama
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Yes Ma’am! X 5 …
Well, I never thought I was boring…
And stalk away. How do you think I got to know these fab writers?
I love that term and was chuffed when I found my old piece.
I know it does – Moonstruck, remember? 😉
And so, are we gonna go see an opera when I get to New Yawk?
You are a wonderful bloggy-dventerous writer friend!
Dale xoxo
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🙂 We could! Can’t say I’ve been to too many of those (yeah, even living in NYC – been to my good share of B’way and off-B’way and some off-off-B’way shows, some concerts — classical and otherwise — and a handful of operas. So, I have some free fingers left to count on. 😉
Here’s to bloggy-dventours! 🙂 XOXO
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Lovely post Ms. Writer. You gotta do opera. I had season tickets to the San Francisco opera and loved it. Good night now.
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Thank you, Mr. Writer. I am planning on it. My “Cultural buddy” Julie, and I are planning on it.
Bonne nuit!
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Such a wonderful post Dale. Love the inspiration and the great quotes. You’re a fine writer , never doubt it! 💜
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Thank you Rene Holly 😉
You are most generous to say so! 🧡🧡
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Just the facts! 💜
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Then I thank you even more profusely! 🧡🧡
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Your curiosity is one of a lot of wonderful things about you :-). And I understand what you were saying. I seem to be going through a shift where I am much more easily bored by people who are not seeking something bigger than themselves in life. And it’s making personal relationships really hard :-). But I guess that’s what we signed up for, right? Know that you are loved and we are blessed to have you write in this space.
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You are the sweetest!
And I know you understand. I tried to “lower my standards” so to speak. I can’t do it. I need to be challenged or stimulated by another. I can’t be the one supplying it all the time. (God, that sounds so uppity and condescending.) Thank you. I am blessed to have you in my circle!
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Not at all uppity. Not at all condescending. No judgment. You are wonderful just as you are. Don’t forget that.
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Well… I don’t want to come across as better than. It is not that. Not everyone has the same needs so thank you.
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It comes across clearly in your writing, that you lead a rich life, that you are a warm, giving person, that you’re a great friend, that the slightest prompt awakens your curiosity. That makes you one hell of a writer.
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Gosh Crispina! Thank you so much for this. I surround myself by wonderful writers such as you and it’s paying off.
I’m beyond chuffed now.
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You make me smile, Dale.
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So very glad j do,
She writes with a smile…
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Click Like, she clicks with an answering smile. 🙂
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No wonder you are such a good writer, Dale. You have all the right qualities i.e. you are curious about everything, you are delightfully inquisitive and you refuse to let any idea go without giving it a fair chance. Throw in your passion for language, excellent storytelling and above all your consistently amiable welcome to your readers. You are the polar opposite of the dreary navel gazer. On you go, girl!
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Oh Jilly! What a lovely comment to wake up to! I’m speechless (and that ain’t easy to do!)
Thank you so much.
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Is that a talk box the musician on the right is using. I love the effects they make. Almost like spoken music, akin to the spoken word, akin to your aptitude as a writer. All of them making life that little bit better.
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I don’t know what the heck it was but he had all kinds of sounds coming out of it!
And I thank you, Peter, for your kind words.
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A writer you are and boring you are definitely not! 😍 I’m so glad you enjoyed the S P concert 😊 I went in thinking the same as you 😁 And now it’s Abba to Zombie baby 😉
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You, sweet friend, are adorable. You’re even more wild than I am music-wise! Course you have Dany to keep your musical life interesting (among other things, of course 😉)
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Na’ama covered it. Someone who writes is a writer. 🙂 And no, no one could ever think you’re boring. I am not very adventurous, but I love your exuberance and willingness to try new things.
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Thank you, Merril. You may not be overly exuberant but you are one of the ones who inadvertently pushes me 😉
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We all need a nudge sometimes. 😉
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Absolutely!
I get nudged daily by fab folks 😉
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Pretty amazing stuff, Dale. Thanks for putting yourself on the page.
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Thank you for being in my circle, Ina
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If you were not a writer, I would not look forward to reading your thoughts, experiences, fantasies on a daily basis. You are a great writer, blogger, whatever. Lead, follow, or get the hell out of the way is a quote I’ve used for years. You lead. As for music……that’s my great love. My sons introduced me to many different styles and genres, thus getting me out of my comfortable box. Many times I thank music for being there when no one else was. My fantasy would be to play music and travel the world and experience all the differences that inspire us. Unfortunately. I am not a writer and have to live vicariously through others when it comes to that. Fortunately, I am surrounded by wonderful writers such as you and my extremely talented wife, Rochelle. I do get somewhat jealous of all the talent around me. See? You got me going here. Now, let me get back to my coffee and days preparations.
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Well I am very glad that you do, Jan,
That is a great quote!
Being open to the possibilities is the only way to be. My son introduces me to his stuff all the time, too.
You would play music around the world and I would love to travel write 😉 Who knows? Maybe it will happen one day!
Your wife is amazingly talented and I am honoured to call her friend! Plus, I got a bonus with you!
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What I love most about this post is the sheer joy you express in your journey as a writer – there’s joy in the music too, but when you write about the writing there’s a delighted soul in there so pleased at what she can do 🙂
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Thank you so much, Andrea. Having found myself in this blogosphere and meeting people like you has inspired me greatly. I never realised how much I do enjoy the whole writing thing until fairly recently (when you consider I’ve been doing this “officially” since 2013, which isn’t all that long ago, is it.
I love that you see this about me!
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Dear Dale,
You are a prime example of a natural writer who touches the reader to the core. And we do all have to start somewhere. I’m glad you did. I know you haven’t been doing FF as long as some, but to me it seems you’ve been with us forever. I’ve enjoyed the friendship that’s formed between us as women, mothers and writers.
Here’s a link to one of my very first blogs. http://rochelle-wisoff.blogspot.com/2012/01/shoppers-head-back-to-bakery-for-great.html#comment-form Not exactly a post gone viral. 😉
Thank you for being part of my blog challenge and my life.
Shalom and lotsa hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
Now that is a comment to warm the cockles of the heart (what a weird expression). We can thank Sarah for the introduction to FF and you but never would I have expected such a friendship to blossom. I am blessed big time.
I, of course, had to comment 😉
Thank you for being in my circle and one of my influencers!
Shalom and lotsa love,
Dale
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“I’m not fighing it any more. I am a writer.” BRAVO Dale. BRAVO!
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Thank you, David!
THANK YOU!!
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I asked how can you ever be sure
that what you write is really
any good at all and he said you can’t
you can’t you can never be sure
you die without knowing
whether anything you wrote was any good
if you have to be sure don’t write.
— W.S. Merwin, from “Berryman,” Migration: New & Selected Poems (Copper Canyon Press, 2005)
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How cool are you to come back with this?
This is perfect. Thank you, my friend.
xoxo
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Hello my writer friend … just keep exploring, keep overturning rocks to see what’s underneath. Keep writing.
Now I’m gonna have to go listen to Snarky Puppy.
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Thank you my fellow writer friend. I shall. I don’t think I can stop, now.
Oh, do enjoy. Lemme know what you think! I can’t believe they are 13 albums in and I just learned about them…
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I’m with you! I am always curious and always getting lost in rabbit holes because something has caught my attention – whether it’s music or words or nature or movement. I can’t help myself. It’s also a bitch when I need to finish a project but my head is already moving on to the next.
I’m glad I’m not alone in this and that my companions are just as awesome as you are. 💖😘
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Well duh, SFAM! Of course you’re like that!
We are damn awesome! 😘
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Like you, I never considered myself a writer and yet, through blogging, I came to discover I had ‘something to say.’ The blogging world opened up such an amazing horizon where I (at least digitally) found such inspirational peeps like yourself, for which I shall always be grateful. xo
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It’s been an eye-opening and enriching this blogging biz. And yes! Finding peeps like yourself more than a wonderful thing
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Q,
Firstly, this literary proclamation . . while beautifully penned, is unnecessary. You understand it, you know it . . that you are a writer. Because it’s the truth and it speaks to you as simply and plainly as sunshine. It’s your voice that has been fashioned from heartache and despair, love and joy. From there to here you came, each piece of this writer that you most certainly are was whittled into being by the moments, the passions and the remarkable need to document it.
As is often true, writers have many loves- not to mention quirks, addictions, dark fantasies and love affairs with adult tonics- and this is how they are able to make a simple thing fantastic sounding.
I’ve been more than just a little blessed to have experienced all of the possibilities the blogosphere possesses. It’s why I can’t imagine NOT blogging on some level or other. And I am more than a little thankful that it brought me a friend such as yourself. Beautiful and true, honest, smart assy and brilliant.
And oh yeah, a writer. That too. 🙂
Blessings, love and peace to you Dale and Q . . .
Both
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B and Marco,
I was half-expecting you to give me shit for this. You know when you plan to go one way but the fingers type away elsewhere? This was more supposed to be about surrounding myself with the peeps who continue to help me grow. I know, I did touch on that. You are one who truly made me see my truth. I know I am a writer. 😘
As for the blogosphere… what a fantastic place this is! I can’t imagine NOT blogging either. I think I’ll even put it my living will that one of my children or someone will have to poste about my demise when it happens – in a looong time, I hope. I am more than thankful you became part of my life too. Handsome, honest, no-bullshit, funny, snarky and oh-so brilliant writer and person.
Blessings, laughter, peace and lotsa love to you, dear B
Q-Dale
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Oh, I give you shit enough as it is. LOL.
But today is for giving the peeps you know and love the truth of all truths. That their presence in your life matters. Lots.
And umm . . I told you about this writer thing a while back. 😉
But umm . . I get the struggle to figure that whole thing out, because I was there back in the time of gorillas and dames. And yeah, you push and wonder, struggle and ball up your fists and curse. And then you realize . . yeah. I can do this. I AM this.
To think, once upon a time bloggers were made fun of. And not just by Elliott Gould either. But hells, it’s a wonderful thing and it’s stood the test of time for a reason.
Well you know you’re gonna make me blush and cry with that. Both.
Blessings, bourbon, laughter, snarkyness, peace and lots and lotsa love back.
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This is true 😉
And you’re right. This is exactly what it was.
Yeah. You did 😉
I know you do. And I realise that I am exactly there. Wanting to do it and do it well and be me all at the same time.
They were? It is a fantabulously wonderful thing.
Well you know I am a straight-shooting type of chick so when I say what I say, I mean it.
Blessings with all that and more.
MWAH!!
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And yanno . . vice versa.
The day doesn’t have to be named. It doesn’t have to be a national holiday. It just has to be taught, spoken about and remembered.
But like I said, I get it.
The struggles and the method are different for everyone.
Elliott Gould (his character in a movie, lol) said blogging was akin to literary graffiti.
Me too! LOL
Blessings, love and peace.
And MUAH!!
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Of course – we share in our shit-giving.
No, it doesn’t.
Without a doubt it’s different for everyone.
I vaguely remember reading that!
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Blessings, love and all that jazz,
And MWAH!
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Mutual is best.
Thank God it’s different for everyone, or we would have a run on bourbon.
Good one! 😉
MUAH!
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I could not agree more!
No kidding, eh?
😉
MWAH!
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Yep.
I dunno. If that was the poison they picked.
😉
MUAH!
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Right. To each his poison.
MWAH!
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Yeah really. Let’s not go giving bourbon TOO good a name. More for us.
MUAHZZA!
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Ha ha ha!!! Right.
MAWAHHHZ!
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LOL.
MUAHZY!
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Ha ha ha!!
We be nuts, yanno, that, right?
MWWWAAAZZERS!
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That might be an understatement, just slightly . . .
MUAHBE you’re right.
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My bad. 😛
MWAHBE I am…
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LOL.
MUAH the force be with us!
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OK.
MWAH gonna put a stop to this nonsense!
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You right.
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Of course.
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I’m not there yet, but one of my goals is to become such an amazing author that people are still reading my books 100 years from now.
As soon as I’m finished with recovering from Adrenalin Fatigue, I’m hitting the road and will have a lot of exciting adventures.
As for opera, not interested. I know, those who love it will never understand, but I bet they never saw a superhero movie.
I figure we’re even. ;0)
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I sure hope it happens for you, Phyllis!
Do share your road trip with us!
Opera might turn out to be meh for me but I figure I can’t judge ’til I’ve sat through one!
And you’d be surprised..re opera and super hero movie 😉
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I see myself in much of what you write. I definitely want to surround myself with those who have something to offer – of themselves. And I would love to be able to hear a little song, see a little picture and speak a few reasonable words every day.
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So glad you do, Otto. It’s what this is all about, isn’t it?
Absolutely! A little of all that every day.
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I told you …. you’re like thunder!
I’ve always enjoyed your writing, and your spirit!
Do you still manage all those blogs? I’ll link over. See what’s what!
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Ah now…
I’m so glad you do.
And no, I don’t
But g’head!
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Amazing….. blogs live forever!… or at east since 2011!
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Haha! Ya baby!
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it is a great aspiration to have. much luck to you.
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Thank you, Sebastian!
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Very interesting point of view. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you, Dan
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This is so well written and so wonderful. Thank you so much for this! I look forward to more of your articles.
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Thank you so much for reading and enjoying, Nick
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This is so well written and so wonderful. Thank you so much for this! I look forward to more of your articles.
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Thank you, Nick.
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Brilliant, really insightful blog! I also believe writing and music are intertwined. Hell, I just published a playlist to accompany my novel! So really enjoyed reading this.
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Thank you!
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Very nice article! I enjoyed a lot Reding it. Thanks for sharing.
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