It’s officially Friday as the midnight bell has rung. Took me a while to get this right. I love Crispina‘s challenge and had planned on writing something else once I got home from work. But just before I started my car, I was going to write some nonsense on Facebook when I saw a post from my friend, Linsey. I had to change my plans.
In My Life
The sky was showing off with gusto
Pinks and purples, peaches and blues all swirling about
Leaving me wondering who she was trying to impress
Still dazzled, I read the sad news
And was brought up short
My friend’s husband had passed
His soul has crossed over the bridge as they say
His time of suffering is blessedly over
Leaving behind his loved ones as relieved as they are sad
I never met the man but it matters not
He made my TFAY* happy and that is all I need to know
It was you, Tim, painting the sky so brilliantly
All the while
Making that bridge glow a golden yellow, reflecting your light
You may be gone but as John said “In My Life”:
I know I’ll often stop and think about them
In my life I’ll love you more
As those who loved you will do for you
Rest in peace, Tim
*TFAY – Twin From Another Year
Dale, you’ve done it again, and spectacularly. Sorry to hear about your friend’s husband, but I do like the way you’ve very cleverly worked it into this prompt. As to your answering photo… I love that bridge. Taken at around the VP, it’s excellent. 🙂
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Aw shucks, Crispina! Thank you so much. It was such a quick case. He was diagnosed in April.
I’m glad it worked. I was afraid it would be too clunky.
VP?
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Very promising, is that? Or vacuum pump? Could be Vice President. Or Vantage Points.
Now, it wasn’t clunky. And I do feel for your friend. Though fast is often best.
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Hahaha! Love it. I’ll take Very Promising for 1000, Alex…
Glad it wasn’t. I do, too. They had 16 years together and she and his kids got to say goodbye and tell him how much they loved him.
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That’s good. That’s better than a road accident, or years upon years of slow deterioration. We’ve all gotta go. It’s the how that’s the frightener.
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Yes. Or a heart attack.
And yes, the how is definitely the frightener.
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As comedian Spike Milligan said (our father’s generation) I don’t mind dying, but I don’t want to be there when it happens.
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Such a great quote!
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It sticks in the memory. He was my father’s favourite comedian.
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Dear Dale,
Such a lovely tribute to your friend and her husband. Nobody does these better. And it just so happens that of all the Beatles songs (and I do pretty much know them all) In My Life is my favorite Beatles song.
Shalom and lotsa hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
Thank you, so much. I just felt the need to send her some love all the way to Johannesburg.
It is a gorgeous song.
Shalom and lotsa love,
Dale
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I am so sorry for your friend’s loss. What a lovely tribute you’ve penned for her. I love this Beatle’s song–it’s lovely and wistful at the same time.
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Thank you, Merril. I felt I had to write a little something.
It is such a beautiful song that I hadn’t really paid attention to.
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My daughter sang it at my mom’s 90th birthday party.
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Such a beautiful song that can be used for also many occasions.
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Oddly enough, someone’s passing come to me very early – then wow – I couldn’t believe it. May this memory give you comfort and smiles.
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Thanks, Frank
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A beautiful tribute to someone who mattered to someone who matters to you. If only we could show compassion to all, what a wonderful world it would be!
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Thank you Peter. It would be indeed!
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Ah, Dale, what a beautiful piece… I’m so sorry about your friend’s other half. Your golden bridge and painted sky… perfect!
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Thank you, Marina. He was in such pain, they are relieved for him – doesn’t make his death any easier but still.
And so glad you liked my images to go with (I admit to playing with my photo to make it match Crispina’s in basic colour).
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…and match it did! Perfectly! 🙂
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Sa-weet! 😀
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xoxoxo
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xoxoxo
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Lovely. So sorry for your friend, though.
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Thank you, Tara.
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Q,
Sorry to hear about your friend’s loss. It seems the bridge never stops working, taking stories from this side to the next. You wove the pic with the song with the sentiments into a wonderful tribute that speaks to life and death in equal pacing; with appreciation for the former and a sober testament of the latter.
Peace and love,
B
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B
Thanks. It happened so fast. That bridge never stops. So glad I did justice to the tribute. What a beautifully written comment…
Peace and love and seizing the moments,
Q
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What a beautifully written tribute, are you kidding me? You’ve showed the true blessings of writing and social media, where people might learn and be introduced to lives and lessons they otherwise would never be exposed to.
Yes, to all of it.
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So, we both write beautifully. And I am beyond pleased to be one who shows the true blessings of writing and social media. As are you, yanno. You’re not all snark and bite. That said, I thank you graciously.
To sharing the love.
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I’ll go with that.
What’s wrong with snark and bite? 😉
Thank you for this, Q.
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You do that. Coz it’s true.
Absolutely nothing. It’s one of the things I love about you!
You’re welcome, B. The thank you goes both ways.
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Going with it. 😉
I’ve got a certain charm. It might have cactus needles on it, but hey . . .
Deal.
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Good.
It does. And the prickly parts are what make life interesting.
Deal! Sealed with a MWAH!
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Yes, this is true. Not everything is peach trees and sunshine.
MUAH!
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How boring that would be…
😘
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Zzzzzz.
😘
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Ha ha!
😘
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😉
😘
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I’m so sorry, Dale. Such a lovely picture of the two of them–you can see the feeling between them.
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Thanks, Kristine. That’s why I stole that one from FB 😉 (with permission, of course).
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Sad post today, Dale. Lovely photo of the two. Sorry for your friends loss
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It is. And I thank you , John.
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😊
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Sorry about the loss of your friend’s partner. May tender memories comfort her. A beautiful image with accompanying prose. Again. You rock these challenges. 🥰
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Thanks. I think they will.
And I thank you for your kind words! 🥰
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How beautiful and how touching and how real – thank you Dale, for this tribute to your friend’s husband, now across the bridge and yet still, as you so elegantly illustrated, very much in hearts and minds.
I hope she finds comfort.
I’m so sorry for her loss.
And for all the many losses, so many of them in what truly feels to be before one’s time.
Na’ama
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Thank you, Na’ama. I just felt compelled to do a little to know that I am here for her, een though she is way over in South Africa.
We have the same birthday (not same year) so I know she is strong. Tim’s death, while painful, did bring his daughter and son closer to Linsey so silver lining.
It always feels before one’s time, doesn’t it.
Thank you for your lovely comment.
Dale
xoxo
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Xo
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xo
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It’s 4 am on saturday , and reading your kind words to linsey and Tim , all I can say , beautiful ,and thank you Dale .. xo
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Thank you, Gary. xoxo
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Very touching Dale.
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Thank you, Jan
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So very lovely! ❤
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Thank you!
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Love how you translated the view of the sky to the passing of your friend’s husband. Beautiful poem.
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Thank you so much, Ina. I just felt I had to do something for her…
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