Good Wednesday, my peeps. I know this doesn’t really fall into “story” category but rather a vignette but it’s what came to me so I’m sticking to it π
If you want to play along, click on the frog below and add your link. If you need to learn the rules and regs, click on Rochelle‘s name – she gives the what’s what.
Decision Time
“Do you ever miss those days of working in an office, nine to five, no overtime, no running around ’til your feet fall off?”
“Sometimes. It’s nice knowing what time you finish work. And I miss the fringe benefits like dental, medical and such. And wearing nice clothes.”
“Would you consider going back?”
“The thought of being tied to a desk and phone makes me want to puke.”
“So, that’s a ‘no’, then. What are you going to do?”
“Not sure, honestly. I’m hoping to find a juste-milieu where I can move and put my people skills to good use.”
Everyone is searching for a juste-milieu, Dale. Nice job on the prompt.
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Merci, mon ami!
I guess we all are, at that.
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Oui.
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I am SO with you!!!
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A great take on this prompt, my friend. π
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Thank you, Missy!
Glad you liked π
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I did … and I also liked not having to like a 9-5… because that ain’t me neeever π
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IT was me for 30+ years… 9-5, 8-4, 7-3… same difference π
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I did that, too … but I don’t miss it … π
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Not one iota. π
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π
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Dear Dale,
All my best on your finding the middle ground. Surely there’s a kinder job for you out there. I know your feet will thank you. π Well done in rare Dalectable fashion. β€
Shalom,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
You are always so kind. I have been cruel to my feet but did find a part of me that I didn’t know I was so good at. Hopefully something is out there that’ll fire me up!
Thank you, always, my purple-loving friend!
Shalom and lotsa love,
Dale
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Well, one thing I’m certain of is that any place would be lucky to have you. I hope you’re able to find the right one.
I think it must be nice to go home and not have your job come with you, but I can’t imagine going to an office and having to work 9 to 5.
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Very kind of you to say, Merril!
Ugh. I did. For 30+ years which is why when this waitress job was offered, I jumped, even though I had zero experience. However, now it is time to try something else. Or maybe move from a golf club to a regular restaurant which doesn’t involve schlepping tables and chairs for a banquet hall π
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Good luck!
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Thank you!
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The Haitians have a proverb: “if work was such a great thing, the rich would have grabbed it for themselves long ago”
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Seriously. π
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Cheers to finding a side hustle that sparks joy. For some reason I canβt select a like button but I like it.
Tracey
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I have discovered that WP is a dink with the cell phones… There are only a few blogs I can click the like but many I can’t. Why? Who the hell knows.
That said, I need more than a side hustle, unfortunately. So… I’m on the search!
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Darn, a real job!
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Bloody hell…
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Q.
Everyone is looking for that Just Miller, that poifect landing spot for their skills and a place where they won’t feel bolted down to the place at the same time. It’s a matter of finding that landing spot, but I have every bit ‘o faith that you are gonna. Because it’s no more club . . no huay.
Wearing nice clothes, I’ve heard that’s a real thing in some places. π
On to the next adventure! (That won’t break your back or fray your feetsies) . . .
B
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B,
I know it. I am so not alone. I think finding the place where you are 100% happy is a fantasy. That said, I’ll take 75% – which is what I had at the club but, as we know… no more!
It’s funny because the last office job I had we could wear jeans or whatever we wanted so, that was cool. I think it’s the effing uniform (did I tell you my neighbour said Iooked like a busdriver?) I want to do without!
Ya baby! No back-breaking or feet- fraying, please.
Q
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Peeps want the dream job and I get it. But there has to be contentment and purpose to the thing. I think liking the peeps you work with AND for, plus knowing your purpose and how much it matters. Dream jobs got retired when Hugh Hefner died.
Is that how bus drivers look in Canada? Here, they look like KFC security guards.
No more . . No Huay!
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That’s exactly it, B. Dream jobs are not real. Well, unless you are Hugh Hefner, as you said π I want to enjoy myself at work, with peeps that I respect and know that what I do does matter. And ironically, I had that at the Club – plus the aches and pains which needs must exit the equation.
LOL!
Dju got that right!
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Hey, the New York Mets are in need of a manager. It doesn’t require much knowledge of baseball. You just sit in the dugout for nine innings, sometimes more. And nobody expects very much of your club. It’s a pretty sweet gig.
Huay!
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Oooh… And me with a new interest in baseball… that just might be what I need! π
Hah!
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You’ll have to deal with the NY media, but you can handle that, no problem.
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There is that… You think?
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You ain’t talking their shit, I know that much.
Go ‘Spos!
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Woot!!
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WOOT!!!
The Expos win! Theeeeeeeee EXPOS WIN!
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Ya babeeeeeee!!
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Un . . believable.
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Fan-fucking-tastic!!!
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The Nationals were the third biggest underdog in Series history. And yet . . .
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… and yet…
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Um, yeah, miss it like a bad rash. I left the law firm saying I’d rather scrub toilets than work there anymore. Not that I have strong feelings, mind you. LOL
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Hahaha!
When I left my last office job I was at the point that I’d rather stab my boss I’m the eye than say good morning to him… No. No string feelings at all…
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Haha! Yeah, no bitterness on this end. Mostly.
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Nope. None.
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I could so relate to this! I gave up my office job in London and fled to a new life in Spain thirty years ago; never looked back! π
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Wow! I so wish I had the cojones to do that! π
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Good luck in finding your new vocation. Very few get to find that dream job where they get paid to do something they enjoy.
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Thanks. I’m not looking for a crazy out-there dream job but it would be nice to enjoy going to work. I actually did at the golf course but my body is complaining. Loudly.
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Look, everyone has already said everything. Leaving me with… Nice one, Dale π
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Ha ha ha! What? Crispina sans words?
Thanks. I honestly had no idea where to go with this one…
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I don’t know why, but sometimes your post doesn’t appear in my Reader until ages later, despite I constantly refresh the screen. There were some 10 or more posts after yours. If I hadn’t scrolled back, I wouldn’t have seen it. That happens quite regularly. But it’s not cos you’re in Canada, since I have no problems with Jen’s. Odd.
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That is why I hate the Reader. I don’t know why it does that. And sometimes, I publish a post and it puts an older date and then gets lots. Nope… I avoid the Reader like the plague.
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It’s my go-to place. It’s easy. I like ease
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Not so easy as you had to search for me π
However, you are not alone in using the Reader and that’s all good. Like anything, it can have its occasional blips.
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So how do you do it? Have the posts delivered to your email?
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Yes. It might mean an over-filled inbox – especially with the multi-posters but I can still choose to flush or open.
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Yep, I can see the advantage of that. But for now I’ll keep to my ways π
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I say we do what works for us. π
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π π π
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OR, you could start a band in your garage! (or basement)
I like this a lot Thunder, but I wonder about a juste-milieu?
What if you find yourself in an old Stealers Wheel song? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OMAIsqvTh7g xoxo
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Depends who I’d be suck with π
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π… Best ever Freudian type-o! π
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Buahahaha!!!
Errrr… STuck…
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LOl… still, it’s very funny. I’ll change it if you want., & clean up the after mess.
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Nah!! Leave it. It IS funny!
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Truly! π π
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You will, Hun you have so much to offer π¦π¦
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That is sweet of you to say.
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I only speak the truth π¦π
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Ye of much faith.
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ππ¦π¦π¦π¦
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So sorry to hear of your job loss, and I will pray that the best job for you comes your way really soon. Great story.
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Didn’t lose my job, Bear. I will simply be searching for one less punishing on my body. If I want, I can return for next golf season (which, until then, I am working all the Christmas parties). Then I rest in January and start my search for realz.
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Oh, that’s good news, sorta. Hope you find something that is much better for you.
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It is. I always have that to fall back on should I not find something else…
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I have never had such a job… usually too hard to leave a desk I no longer have (they call it free seating)
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Such a job as what?
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A job with such fixed hours
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I hope you find some middle ground or better. You are too talented not to.
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As gee, Jan… thank you for your high regard.
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I do have a high regard for you. I think you are a phenomenal writer. You write from the heart, it is interesting and you always hold my attention and leaving me wanting to know more. Keep on keepin on.
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Awww… I am deeply touched, Jan. Thank you so much for your kind words. They are beyond appreciated!
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That’s why I keep trying to get published. My goal is never to work another job I hate. Good luck in your search for your juste-milieu.
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Good luck to you, too!
Maybe one day I’ll have the courage to write something with the goal of getting published…
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It’s not courage you need. It’s perseverance. Not only to finish your manuscript but to keep submitting despite the mounting rejections and remember Jack London was rejected 100 times before he was published.
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This is true. Perseverance is necessary in all domains to succeed. So you keep on sending them out!
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i know what you mean. sometimes a change of perspective helps. like they say, if you don’t like it, change your liking. π
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This is true. Though I don’t foresee finding a way to protect my feet, knees, back, arms… π
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i do enjoy a good vinaigrette.
I hear the mob is always looking for those with ‘people skills’.
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You funny guy…
And to that, I say Pffft! I fear you are mocking me…
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There’s no mocking the unmockable https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9L-VQYa3Ni8 I sing back..
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Mmm hmmm
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Good stuff Dale, sometimes it feels like Ive been stuck in this Juste Milieu for 2 decades with my job! Why would that be a bad thing I wonder? I really have no idea, but sometimes I want the managers to show me they are earring their salary and make a few decisions.
Can’t really complain to be fair. Good stuff Dale, you’ve captured the essence of it all!!
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Thank you, Shrawley. I feel ya! It seems to be a situation in so many domains…
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As I’ve stated before, love how you find a personal story to tell from a picture. You’ve revealed so much of yourself, In terms of the current situation, I’m confident that you’ll find a way.
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Thank you, dear Frank. So much for fiction, eh?
Oh, I will. Once I start looking for real.
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And when you do, go get ’em!
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You betcha!
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Sounds like you’re stuck in a bunker! I’m suddenly craving a mille-feuille, Strange how the mind works.
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Haha!! Not quite…but one would be good, eh?
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I had to look up what “juste-milieu” meant. Now I want to use it in a sentence! I hope you find a job that better suits you and your skills!
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It’s funny – I was sure this was one of those French words that had been borrowed by the English language, like, say, clichΓ©…
So, I am happy I have added it to your vocabulary!
I will, thanks!
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Perfectly believable dialogue, Dale – I have hear many similar conversations over the years.
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Thank, Liz. I have had similar conversations over the years π
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Sounds like a fine life if you can get it. There are pluses and minuses with 9 to 5 that’s for sure.
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There are pluses and minuses to every job. I actually like my job, most days. It’s just very hard on my body and I don’t feel like living in pain anymore!
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Me too, the same day in and day out is exhausting though. I’d love to sleep in.!
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I became more of a night owl as I worked until 11-midnight!
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Ouch! Oh Dale, that’s rough
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But that’s when I start work at 2 or 4 pm! π
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Oh! Cool π
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So very appropriate for many people, why get stuck in one place and job for ever. Choice.
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So true. I never stayed long in any job (and have the lack of pension to prove it…
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People have married for less.
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And that is the truth right there!
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Isn’t that just so ?! I think we can all agree – but you might be as unlucky as I was/am. I was working in 3 companies in Canada & didn’t even know that I should have papers for social contributions, then I stayed some years at home to be with my child, but worked part-time because I wanted to contribute to the well-being of my country (and wallet!), I moved on to live in UK where I worked for 8 years for free because I just absolutely loved doing it, hence no contributions to a pension, when I returned to Switzerland and later to France, nobody would employ me because ‘I was costing them too much money’ (yep!) and now I’m on a rate so dismal that I wouldn’t even be able to pay the monthly rent from that ‘income’ (which also needs to be taxed), not to speak of health insurance, living, having expenses, nothing!!!!
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Ugh… Well. I have always worked and contributed here and there but nothing like those who work for 30+ years in the same place.
I just didn’t stick around long enough, averaging maybe 3 years per place. If get bored and move on. Has given me a wide range of skills, though.
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And you made obviously a good job of those skills too….. love you babe! π
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Thank you, you lovable Kiki!
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Oh Gosh … the horrors of being a grown-up and responsible.
Wouldn’t it be grand to get up everyday and just do what you want?
Oh, I have that job. BUT … now, it hurts to move and bend and lift and dance and run and eat certain food. UGH … I want a job again so this will all go away. LOLOL
Hey … you know what they say, ” Life’s a Bit_h and then you die.”
Hang in there … my dear, Dale.
Isadora π
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Ugh. I could so skip the whole responsible part…
Yeah, me too. The job itself was great – mostly but the aches and pains following… no gracias.
Hanging, my friend. I’m hanging!
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When in doubt … Hang and distress ππ
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Oh, there’s a whole huge story in there! You told us all we need to know in your little vignette.
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Thanks, kind lady! Yep. Time to make a change!
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Well, I had to look it up, but a juste-millieu sounds just great!
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Glad you took the time! I swear, there are words that are used in the every day vernacular. I didn’t realise this one was not!
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I may have to try working this one into the vernacular.
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Go for it!
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That is a nice thought. More and more people are looking at opportunity of self employment that makes them their own boss.
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This is true. And could be an option
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People skills are great… until one deals with the general public. π
Great take on the prompt D!
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There are times when that can be most trying!
Thanks, T
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Wouldn’t it be nice to find a juste-milieu? Which I had to Google. I assumed it was some sort of tasty French pastry. Which would also be good π
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It would be indeed. Haha! I have made peeps work this week and a tasty French pastry would be do food now…π
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Best of luck with your career change Dale. Keep thinking I should do the same – getting too old to be on my feet, running up and down stairs all day. Need the courage to try to write for a living, but too chicken just at the moment. Good luck to you, dear Dale, and may you find something befitting your many skills. Whatever you do, you’ll be amazing π
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Thank you, Lynn. It’s too bad I hurt because it’s great for my butt and muscles! I lost 15 lbs just by running around!
I’ll find something. What remains to be determined! Thanks for your faith in my abilities! π
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It is a difficult thing. I’m the same to an extent – my job involves going up and down a flight of stairs all day and much as I’m cautious of sitting down too much, the stairs are becoming a trial! You’ll do brilliantly in whatever comes your way
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I do thank you for your vote of confidence! π
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I hope you do find something to do that you love π
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So do I!
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Sounds like you have good ideas in mind for your next career, Dale. Happy hunting.
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Now… how to put it into a reality, is the question… Thank you, Ina.
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Haha, good one Dale! And it’s a no for me too. Though having a quitting time is a definite bonus.
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I tell ya, Shelley… I did the 9-5, 8-4, 7-3 (same sh*t, different time slot) for over 30 years. It was a nice change to do the waitress gig in a private golf club but oy, the pains! I kept saying I’m too old for this sh*t π You know what time you start but never when you finish…
I shall see what the Universe has in store for me in the new year…
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Hopefully not more of the same sh*t Dale. We’re all done with the time slot thing I think.
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Oh hell ya!
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So eloquently put Dale, a big decision to make. Feels like you are ready to make it now, all good luck with whatever you choose to do. Well done for starting the process, sure you’ll find what’s right for you.
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Thank you, Francine. I’ll tell you what; if I was on the fence, last night’s banquet pushed me right off. I finished work at 2:30 in the am and was reminded why I need to change.
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Ah oui… il serait super de trouver un juste milieu! π
Bonne chance, mon amie!
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Merci! Γa serai l’idΓ©al!!
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ha! This echoes where I am right now! I keep thinking of going back into the corporate world doing the 9 to 5 thing. And yet, also I know only extreme circumstances would force me back into that. Let’s see what the new year holds for us, hey Dale?
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Absolutely, Fatima!
Good luck to us both!
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I know…I’m not where I want to be either but at this age it is more about not hating my job than the old mighty dollar. But a couple more dollars would be nice! lol
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Yes. I need to be enjoying my job – which I mostly did but less and less. And for the work we do, it would be nice to be better paid…
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