Good Wednesday, my peeps! Hope the sun is shining for you today. Here, we have been graced with a lovely white blanket of snow, just enough to brighten things up a bit. I was getting worried we’d end up with a green Christmas this year… Course, that is still a week away…
This week our lovely leader, Rochelle chose my picture. How cool is that? And, as it would have been Mick’s 56th birthday today, I felt a little something that represents who he was, was in order. Do join in on the fun and add your own 100-word story by clicking on the frog below!
Satisfied
The location was perfect – a wonderful unobstructed view of his beloved river. He’d always wanted a property by the water.
The gazebo was perfect. As she knew it would be. He never failed at whatever he built. He always put such meticulous care into every thing he created with his talented hands. Only he ever saw whatever small flaws there might be. Try as we might, we could never find them but they drove him crazy. Perfectionist, he was.
She could just picture him sitting there, legs stretched out, beer in hand, grin on face. Satisfied, a job well done.
A wonderful tribute Dale and thanks for providing such a great image this week.
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Thank you, Louise.
Glad you like!!
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He sounds like a lovely man x
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He was.
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What a beautiful homage, Dale. He sounds like a gem. Wishing you a very happy holiday! xo
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Thank you, Lori. He was. He was a number and a half, that one! Keeps coming front and centre and helping me write stories, five years later!
And a most happy of holidays to you and yours, Lori!
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Dear Dale,
I’m sure that wherever he is today, Mick is sitting with his legs stretched out, a heavenly beer in his hands, a large grin on his face, a birthday crown on his head, and is saying “you are doing right fine” and is proud of YOU for a job well done. (and he likely means ALL jobs, pick any one!)
Happy Birthday in Heaven to Mick
And hugs to you, my friend, during this tender time …
Na’ama
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Dear Na’ama,
I swore I wouldn’t bring him into it today but, he pushed. He’s probably got his hands raised in frustration at the mess, to be honest… 😉
And thank you.
And thanks for the hugs. I was not fishing for any but since you’ve offered, I’ll take ’em…
Dale
xoxo
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I like hugs. Also, they’re kind’a selfish, because the person GIVING the hug is also a person GETTING a hugs, effectively … 😉 So, yeah, here’s another! 😉
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I love hugs for that very reason. It’s shared!
😀 Beauty!
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Hugs of a feather flock together! 😀
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PS as for the mess – he gets you, I’m sure. 😉 And … I think you judge yourself too harshly. I seem to remember a bug colony taking residence in your body. That is a mess-maker right there … (no pun).
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I dunno… let’s just say it was not the part of me that endeared me to him 😉
However, I shall gladly lay blame on the resident bugs who are doing their utmost to keep me here!
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BTB! (Blame The Bugs!) 😉
As for the mess — it may have not been what endeared you to him but it certainly seems like the mess wasn’t a deterrent to how dear you were to him. Ergo, mess no important! 😉
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LOL! I like how anything can be justified 😉
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I’m creative … 😉
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There is zero doubt about that.
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🙂 XOXO
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A wonderful tribute Dale. Thinking of you today!
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Thank you, Rene! It’s a wonderful day, today!
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Indeed! Have a beautiful day. Here it is wet and cloudy. Would love to see some snow. Lol.
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I was so happy that is started last night and is still going lightly today. Much rather snow over rain in the winter, personally.
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We don’t really have a definite change of seasons down here. I have to enjoy snow vicariously!
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Ah well… consider mine shared with you!
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I love this Dale, every time you write about this amazing guy you love shines through.💜💜💜
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Thank you, dear Willow. Can’t help myself … 🧡🧡🧡
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That is , acceptable, beautiful and perfect 💜
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Beautiful memory, Dale. Thank you for sharing.
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Kinda of a fudged memory but it could have been 😉 He built so many things…
Thank you, Boss!
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What a lovely tribute, Dale! You clearly loved Mick very much.
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Thank you, Penny. I did.
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As others have already said,a lovely tribute, Dale
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Thank you, Neil.
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A lovely tribute, Dale. Mick does sound like a very special man, and how could you not think of him today? And it’s nice that we can all think of him now, too. Can I get in on the hug fest above with you and Na’ama? xxo
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Thank you, Merril. Impossible, quite frankly. Plus, it’s also my mother’s beau’s birthday and those two were in total cahoots.
I am very glad you can. He was such a good egg.
Absolutely. The more the merrier! xoxo
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lovely Dale.
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Dale,
Happy Birthday to Mick! Who will always be right where he belongs. I find it interesting that he wanted a place by the water, because it speaks to a person’s mindset. The mountains are dark and secluded, the water is light and outgoing. He was most definitely a water person, through and through.
I love that picture of him, just chilling and being the Mick.
Working with your hands brings such a sense of satisfaction, you used this challenge to its best solution. Again. 🙂
Marco
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Marco,
It always was! You are right. He will. Yep. He dreamed about it all the time. Oh no. No mountains for him, no way, no how. Open armed and welcoming was his way.
Holding one of my Caesars, to boot 😉 Though there were many pics with him holding a beer, this is the pose, I needed 😉
He was so damn good. I have pieces in this house that I refuse to get rid of because he made them. I just haven’t figured out where to put them yet! He would have made a damn fine gazebo if I had asked him to 😉 Even if he was ‘done’ with building stuff…
And I thank you. Again, 😉
Dale
xoxo
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I know it.
And yep, open arms was his middle name. No strangers in his life.
Ahh, the Caesar. His words to any suitor would most definitely include that special potion of yours, LOL.
I’ve no doubt he would’ve made that Gazebo, and just right. As for his stuff, no huay you can let that stuff go, like ever. Those are heirlooms.
xoxo
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You do.
No kidding… Yep, that’s what my mother always says: Mick never knew a stranger.
Absolutely! 😉
I had to sell Aidan’s single bed, though…that broke my heart. But really, there was no way in hell we could put it anywhere. And anyway, he would have given us shit for just holding on to it. Still. I regretted it. Immediately.
xoxo
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I remember you telling me that.
Yeah, I can see that though. Practically, it wasn’t something you COULD hold onto. And while it sucked, you’re right, he would’ve been upset with you for doing so.
xoxo
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Of course you do. Coz you do that so very well (and I love you for it).
Yeah. It was such a piece of art, too. He dismissed lots of the things he made, stating they were just things. Puh-leeze, MacIsaac! But yeah… I thought of him giving me shit, so I sold it to one who really needed a bed.
xoxo 💞
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Then it worked out perfectly. It went to someone who really needed it. And thus became its next chapter to the story.
xoxo
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Exactly. Win meet, Win (to coin a certain special someone I know)
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It was winning time, indeed. 😉
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Written with love, I sense. 🙂
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Indeed. He could have built one, had he the desire to do so…
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It’s that thing of being a perfectionist. I can imagine the frustration, the projects started and abandoned because something wasn’t quite right. Or am I projecting my own behaviour?
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Yes, indeed. He was a perfectionist. However, he never didn’t finish a project! He never would have left anything abandoned. Not willingly, I can assure you. Yes, he (and usually, only he) could see a flaw or two but he eventually got over it 😉
So, sorry, you are projecting 😉
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Yea well, I eventually accepted that I couldn’t produce perfection, and so finished my projects. But that took time to learn. Obviously, he didn’t take so long to learn it. 🙂
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Ah well… he was meticulous in his work. Often times the supposed errors were not even his… but he still frustrated over his inability to fix them. Silly man.
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I understand it
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a beautiful tribute, thanks for sharing.
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Thank you, Jim. I appreciate your reading!
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I loved this tribute to Mick. According to Connie, I am extremely picky myself on such projects. The flaws have a tendency to stick out when you know where each and every one resides. The good news is most people just look at it as a whole and think it looks great, which does lead to satisfaction.
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Thanks, Russell.
He used to point and say, “Do you see it? Oh my God, it’s so obvious!” And we’d look and stare and try to see and frankly… nothing! So then he would eventually let it go and try not to see the “obvious”… 🙂 Such a guy.
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A good time of year to remember the good times. Lovely story. All the best for the holidays Dale.
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Thank you, Iain. And yes, it is.
All the best to you and yours as well!
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As with Mick, and Russell, I also see flaws in my work that doesn’t seem obvious to some. Nice job on the gazebo, and by the water. I’m jealous as I want both as well. My Birthday was just Sunday so we had close Birthdays. I sure would have liked to have known him. I think we would have been great friends with lots in common.
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I know he would have loved to live by the water and for sure he would have been able to build such a structure! He built so many things in our time together. I guess it’s that Sagittarius thing, eh, Jan? Yep. You would have gotten on great with him!
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I raise a glass to his memory and enjoyed learning a little about him. Cheers!
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Thank you Lisa.
Cheers!!
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Such a beautiful life story of a beautiful life. Happy Birthday Mick!
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Thank you, Peter.
And for the birthday wishes as well!
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You could have been describing my Terry. Down to the last detail.
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How wonderful Terry must be!
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Oh, you betcha 🙂
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Dear Dale,
At the expense of being little Ms. Echo, lovely tribute to Mick. Glad the photo prompt fit the story. Thank you for …um…providing it. 😉 As Jan already said, he’s a perfectionist…and he is a very good fix-it or build-it person. I hope you’re being good to yourself today. I’m sure Mick is smiling down on you saying, “Ya done good.”
Shalom and lotsa hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
Echo away! Most welcome 😉 You know you can, I mean I can provide any time… Yep. They are practical to have around the house a times, those Mr. Fix-Its… I am one with the couch. Trying to magically get things done through telepathy but fear my head is too fuzzy and the message is not getting out…
He’s probably cursing that this and that is still not done 😉
Shalom and lotsa love,
Dale
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Good tribute, Dale … and hugs!
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Thanks Frank… and hugs back!
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Lovely photo and memory 😊
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Thank you, my friend xoxo
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That’s the life!
Great picture D. Both of them.
It never ceases to amaze me that while your side of the globe is on ice, mind is on fire. Just not Christmas if you don’t sweat like a pig. 😀
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I just found this in SPAM! WTF!
It is the life!
Thank you 🙂
It is crazy for sure. But you probably don’t freeze as much as we can sweat (when it’s reversed, that is…)
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Damn spam box… it’s happened to before. WTF moment. 😀
Hope you’re feeling better.
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Damn Spam!
I am, thanks!
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Very cool, build your own gazebo and then sit and relax in it 🙂
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It would be, no?
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I’m blown away by this ‘short story’ and its content. What a tremendous tribute to your dear Mick. He seems to have been a good, conscienscious and gracious husband. I send you a big hug in commemorating your life with M and much love for your future.
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Thank you, Kiki. While the living by the river and building of a gazebo are fictional, the essence is all true. He was a very good egg.
I accept hugs with pleasure!
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Just through the door in France, I hope you feel the power of my hug…. 🙂 Thinking of you. Are you off the (work) hook? Are you better? Lots of bisous too
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I do, thank you.
Yep. Missed the last two days due to illness…
Getting better. Slowly.
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Do also send me the promised links to my private mail please. You know which ones! I don’t….
Sleep well, take care of yourself, treat yourself kindly.
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Oh yes! I almost forgot. Will do so tout de suite …
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What a beautiful way to honor a loved one, Dale! Sending a huge hug! 🙂 xoxoxo
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Thank you, Marina. So glad you liked!
Hug accepted! 😊
xoxoxo
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xoxoxoxo
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I love how you honor the man with your photos and beautiful story. Well done, my friend.
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Thank you, Pam. It’s the least I can do!
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Beautiful. Just like the place, your writing is perfect.
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Thank you so much, Dawn.
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I really like your photo, Dale. What a beautiful story and tribute to Mick. Perfectionists make our world a better and neater place.
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Thank you, Brenda. So glad you enjoyed. They do, do that, don’t they?
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he maybe gone, but as long as one remembers, he’ll remain alive.
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That’s for sure, Plaridel.
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Great tribute in very few words, Dale. A nice photo of his beautiful structure.
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Thank you, Trent. Oh, this is not a structure created by him – though I don’t doubt he could have, if he wanted to!
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Sorry, I misinterpreted part of the “story”.
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All good, my good man!
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Thanks for the memory Dale, and the lovely photo as well!
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Thank you, Russell.
And you are welcome!
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Love this. Sad memories but joyous as well. Great photo
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Thank you, Laurie. Yes, there are so many. It’s all bittersweet.
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Thank you for sharing such a lovely memory of Mick, Dale. I love that he’s with you so much still, all these years later, pushing you on so positively. And as others have said, thank you for the lovely photograph. So gorgeous and inspiring. A very Happy Christmas to you, dear blogging pal. I hope you’re up to full strength again just in time to sit back and enjoy the season! I wish you every good thing for 2020 too. X
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Thank you, Lynn. He does push his way around. He always will be.
You’re most.welcome for the photo. It was a pleasant find.
A very Happy Christmas to you and yours as well , my blogging buddy! May 2020 bring you much joy and a publisher!
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Hope you had a great few days, Dale. Have a fantastic New Year and may 2020 bring you every thing you want and need.
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I did, indeed.
And I thank you!
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What a beautiful tribute, so lovely to read and a lovely way to remember him.
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Thank you, Tasha!
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Such a loving and tender tribute to your man Dale- thanks for sharing.
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Thank you, Francine. This time of year he kinda takes over…
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Job well done, indeed. What a sweet tribute and equally sweet images.
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Thank you, Monika. I’ve no doubt he’d a made a fabulous one, if he were so inclinded 😉
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A beautiful tribute. Awesome!
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Thank you, Bear.
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Having read the above post, your letter to him it only seemed right to comment and to read your FF. Much love x
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Thank you, Claire.
So sweet of you.
Dale xoxo
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A great tribute Dale.
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Thank you, Andrea!
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Adore the picture of the gazebo. Well done.
Happy Birthday, Mick!
A satisfying tribute, Dale!
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Thank you, Sorceress!
Wish I had such a one!
Glad you enjoyed.
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I want a gazebo, too!
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Lovely and wistful.
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Thank you.
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This is such a beautiful, touching tribute, Dale.
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Thank you, Magarisa.
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You’re welcome, my friend.
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Oh, and thanks for the nice photo. 🙂
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My pleasure!
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It goes without saying … fabulous.
Izzy 😎
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Thank you, dear Izzy!
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Memories are so precious. I have no words expect to wish you well
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Thank you, Michael. Those words are enough!
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