C’est le week-end! That means Sammi‘s prompt word comes to torture and inspire…
A word prompt to get your creativity flowing this weekend. How you use the prompt is up to you. Write a piece of flash fiction, a poem, a chapter for your novel…anything you like. Or take the challenge below – there are no prizes – it’s not a competition but rather a fun writing exercise. If you want to share what you come up with, please leave a link to it in the comments.
We Learn As We Go
I was young and naive, then
I saw you as strong and confident and assertive
You were older and wiser, I thought
It felt like true love and had
a fairy tale feel to the whole thing
Our story was a tad unusual, after all
Your actions seemed loving
You turned on your charms
And I was fooled into staying
(again and again)
In hindsight, I see clearly
The way you held your head
With the slightest tilt downward
Your words of encouragement
were veiled with dissuasion
trying to mask your fears
Your imperious manner
and arrogant dominance
you thought would hold sway
(only pushed me away)
There was plenty of good
And I gained experience and maturity
More importantly,
I gained self-worth
Q,
Firstly, how did you know my ex? Bahahaha!
Secondly, this is beautiful in how it speaks to growing. How it comes from inside, and how it is watered by what WE do in response and relation to what is happening to us in personal interactions. Growth, like anything else, comes from within. No other person can make that happen. The seed is ours, and our responses are its water.
Great use of the word for this challenge, Miss Q.
B
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B,
Maybe I shoulda introduced my ex to your ex!!
Thank you. It is a wonderful thing to be able to look back and see the lesson (even if during the experience we are not all that sure). Only way to grow, methinks… Some are too stubborn to try to learn and keep making the same moves. I love how you phrased this whole paragraph…
I appreciate it muchly, Mr. B.
Q
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Hell if Dante wouldn’t have had to come up with a few more circles for THAT introduction . . LOL.
A garden of roses is a consequence of each rose tearing through the dirt, independently. Each rose borne to its own destiny, and while we appreciate the garden, we should consider that rose.
😉
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Hahaha!! Ya think?
So beautifully said. Again. You wordsmith extraordinaire, you.
😚
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I know!
Truths tell tales. 😉
Punk
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No doubt!
They do. 😊
Pay the man a compliment, he calls you a punk. 🧐
😘
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Did I umm . . say that out loud?
😘
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Uh huh… For all to see, to boot
😘
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Whoa.
😘
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😘😘
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😘😘
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Amazing the Q knows your ex. Now that’s channeling!
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I tell ya, Frank… the mysteries in the world…
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That would be interesting, LOL
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LOL!
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It doesn’t sound all bad, but. . . a learning experience? So, maybe it’s good you went through it. Hopefully, he grew up and learned something, too.
That rose is beautiful!
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It wasn’t all bad 😉.
I doubt it. I was the third to dump his butt… And there was another right after!
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OH! Well, then it’s good you realized before too late!
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I probably could have left earlier but I was NOT moving back in with my folks… so I “prepared” 😉
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Great capture of a controlling manipulator .. been there learned never want to go there again 💜
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Thank you, Willow. Nope… Not looking for that again, I can assure you.
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I am glad to hear that 💜
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There are far too many imperious persons … (or who believe themselves as such, whether from a dearth of personal moral compass or lack of confidence or compensation for wounds inflicted by other imperious persons or …) and good for you for recognizing and leaving/dumping and finding some compassion toward where it came from in this particular man (not always easy to do, though hindsight probably helps) and for using this – as you seem to use many difficult experiences, you amazing person you – as a step for growth.
You no need no one to lord over ya.
You are a queen of YOU (as is everyone, though some confuse that as a need or entitlement for underlings … and by that completely distort the meaning of owning ones OWN power) …
You are a good egg.
XOXO
Na’ama (PS my interpretation of the prompt was … um … less forgiving …) 😉
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This be true. The arrogance out there is outstanding… I was too mature for him at 26 to his 38… But yanno. There were some good times, And honestly, I wish him no ill will. He was what he was. And I choose to look for the lesson or learnings (now that I am older and can look back with a different eye). Life teaches us, yanno?
I am the queen of me coz they ain’t no one else who can do me better! 😉 With all the ups and downs and foibles and whatnot.
I like being a good egg… specially coming from another one 😉
I will be checking yours out. I had to publish and run!
xoxo
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I think that it is great to allow others to be who they are (even if we may not be happy with who they are) and accept at the very same time that they are not the ones for us. Most people who have ‘issues’ (as if I don’t have any … LOL!) have some background stories for how they turned out the way they did. Some change and grow beyond it. Some take longer to do it. Most aren’t evil or all-bad. We don’t need to wish them ill-will to wish ourselves better …
Life sure does teach us, yeah, I know! I am quite a bit wiser (I believe) now than I was in earlier years, and perspective is a goodly part of it.
Here’s to being good eggs and not becoming anyone’s omelette but our own! 🙂
XOXO
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It is. And honestly, what point to try NOT to? It’s a waste of everyone’s time. If everyone matched with everyone, it would be a boring life indeed. As you said, we all have our baggage.
Life is one big lesson!
Here’s to not scrambling our eggs more than necessary!
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Amen! Now why do I suddenly feel hungry for an omelet…?😜
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Me too!!
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We can all use a few less imperious punches on our dance cards. *sigh*
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Ain’t that the truth! Sadly, sometimes we need to get one to know what to look for in the future.
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While you’re discussing your exes I thought I ought to tell you he’s been to England too.
Beautiful photo, Dale. And a wonderful poem. Clean words, distinct. A bit like that flower.
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I think he’s been all over the place 😉
Thank you so much. Glad it did come across “clean” – I like that!
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🙂
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I’m glad you can look back and see a positive side to a bad deal. I had two of those and decided to walk rather than put good to bad. I finally got the message. (Very expensive lessons)
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Yanno, in all honesty, it was not all bad and I have to find the positive or I feel like I wasted five years – prime years – 21-26! Sadly these lessons can be very expensive in many ways – monetarily, emotionally….
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Been there, got the shirt.
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Twice 😉
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Yup. Can’t say I’m afraid of commitment.
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We could say something else but we keep things positive here 😉
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Stupid comes to mind immediately.
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NOT what I was gonna say. I was thinking more along the lines of slow learner 😉
Or, better yet, third time’s a charm… (I’m counting on that one…)
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Yeah that is a good one. Twenty nine years so far.
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Wow! Now THAT is wonderful! I think she’s a keeper 😉
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I think it might be she thinks I’m a keeper. She is definately one.
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Well, that is a given… And one would hope each thinks the other is a keeper!
But we were talking about you and your, learning curve 😉
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Yeah. Slow in the beginning.
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Blame it on youth 😉
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Good thing as any.
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Truth.
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Simply put, I love this one. There’s just something about it … maybe the self worth part … well, besides I was placing this in context of Mick. Excellent work, Dale!
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Thanks, Frank. Glad your liked.
Very important point here is true this is SO NOT Mick… This was a boyfriend I lived with from age 21-26….
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Ah ha … thanks for sharing … but still damn good.
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So glad you thought so!
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Isn’t it strange that domineering bullies are, at heart, weak and insecure. What a pity that most do not see that in time!
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This is so very true. And yes… I realised it rather quickly but was NOT moving back to my parents so I stayed a little long and accumulated stuff … I am bad, I know.
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Hello Dale, Love the word IMPERIOUS! Boy, does it pack a punch or what? (And no wonder it pushed you away!). Smiling … 🙂 Great to meet you. Have a lovely weekend. xx
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Hello Selina!
Isn’t it a great word? I love these prompts because they push me to search for how to interpret it and at the same time, I often end up with a little introspection.
Lovely to meet you!
Have a fabulous weekend! xo
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This is bringing flashbacks to me. Different scenarios from my first marriage. It makes me want to throw up! Glad we made it out.
❤
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So terribly sorry I brought you negative flashbacks.
We are both stronger women today… xoxo
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We sure are…
❤💋
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😍🥰
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Every cloud has a silver lining. So often we learn from our mistakes. I know I did – several times!
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Absolutely. I firmly believe in finding the silver lining in everything that I experience. We never learn from our successes… 😉
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Dear Dale,
He wasn’t worthy of you. So glad you found your strength in all of this. Well written. You have my undying admiration. ❤
Shalom and lotsa affirming hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
To think I thought I wasn’t worthy – in the beginning! Learnt pretty quick that was not the case. Took me a few more experiences to get to where I am today – each one a stepping stone. So glad you liked!
Shalom and lotsa confident love!
Dale
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Such an important lesson learned! Bien écrit, ma chère.
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Indeed!
Merci, mon amie!
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Pas de quoi!
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Good for you!
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Thank you!
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Slowly but surely, we learn towards …betterment. All life – all in life, but so well written, Dale! 🙂 xoxoxo [this weekend I’ve been all ‘Frank’ and I’m behind with everyone – how do you manage, you Supergirl you?!!!!!]
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Absolutely. Life is all about learning from our experiences. And I thank you, lovely lady! xoxo
I can see that… You are all over the place! Be all about Frank!
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xoxoxo 😘😘
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xoxo
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We learn a lot about ourselves through our relationships with others. Well-said, Dale.
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That we do.
Thank you, SD
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You’re welcome, Dale!
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There you go, being wise again! ⚡️💥
Self worth was the perfect up shot. Some might go in the opposite direction, end up with less, or no self worth.
Early lover experiences are important. We get to know who we want to love, even if we haven’t met them, yet!
Great piece, Dale!
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Ah well… wisdom does come from experiences, doesn’t it? This is true. One hopes one goes towards self-worth and not the opposite.
They are very important.
So glad you liked!
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Liked mucho!
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Mucho pleased!
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