Crispina’s challenge has sent me down a path I couldn’t seem to avoid. It’s been a week since Pat’s death and we are still reeling so I apologise ahead of time!
Staying the Course
He had never been afraid of the dark or going it alone before and he wasn’t going to start now. He was, however, a mix of angry and sad that life had dealt him yet another blow.
“You can grieve for a bit but then you have to keep moving forward, my friend. But know this. I have your back and when you see a light in the darkest corners, that’ll be me, there for you.
“And, when your own journey is over – and that’s not for a really long time – I’ll be there waiting for you.”
Wow, Dale. This is powerful (and a beautiful Tattoo for the best friend who’ll always have his back). I know you’ll always have his back, too. Hugs across the miles, where distance does not matter.
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Thank you, Na’ama. I was afraid it was too much. Four of them went together and his family is going next. His girlfriend is getting his skull with the words “The problem is you think you have time” – which Iain told me was the tattoo Patrice wanted for himself.
Yes, I will. And thank you for the hugs. They are always welcome.
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Xx
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Weird. I had to refollow you. I am very confused.
Do you actually have tattoo on your back? ~J
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Very weird.
No, my son does
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Dear Dale,
A wonderful tribute to life lived to the fullest in so few years. Well written and heart breaking.
Shalom and lotsa comforting hugs whenever you need them,
Rochelle
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A great tribute Iain has on his back. It underscores the fact that as long as one remembers Patrice will have eternal life.
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I kept thinking of your latest book as I was writing this 🙂
Iain and three of his friends went to get their tattoos – they other three just put the date. 🙂 Last Sunday as they all gathered in my back yard, they spoke of having it done. Well. They were serious. It’s hard to not think of this as a beautiful thing.
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It is a good thing. Iain can tell his kids the story and they can tell theirs. And so eternity flows.
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Yes. It is a beautiful thing.
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Wonderful post and tribute, Dale. I love the photos.
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Thank you, Timothy.
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That’s beautiful, Dale, every part of it.
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Thank you, Crispina. So glad you think so.
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🙂 Indeed I do 🙂 🙂 🙂
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🤗🙂
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😂
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You certainly have no reason to apologize to anyone for this. I still grieve sometimes for those who have been long gone. A very touching story.
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Thank you, Jan. And that is sweet of you. You are right. We continue grieving long after, for some.
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I’m so sorry, and you shouldn’t apologize. It would be sad enough if you knew it was coming, but the sudden and randomness makes it worth. Sending you more virtual hugs!
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Thank you, Merril. When you know you can sort of steel yourself to it. But this? Nothing prepares you for it
Hugs accepted and returned!
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❤️
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💞
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Î just simply cannot imagine all the ‘stuff’ life has been throwing at your family…. And this ‘last sign of love and friendship’, a tattoo on the back as an (eternal) memorial to a lost friend is probably something of the most beautiful (if terrifying) they could have done…. Sending you a few hundred hugs to hold on to, to you and your kids and the family and friends of Pat. Plus my love, of course, my precious friend.
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A touching post! ⚡️💥
A bit at a loss for words here. Nonetheless, I adore this and am filled with emotions.
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Thank you sweet 🧚🌟
No words are necessary. All is felt…
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Thanks….
I certainly made up for it in another comment. xo
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Oh stop it! Was a wonderful comment.
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LOL!
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😘😘
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Oh, Dale, it would be hard not to stay on this path, so no apologies.
That is just so heartbreaking beautiful… and that tattoo…
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Thank you, Sweet Marina.
So glad you think so.
And yes. I was blown away…
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…many hugs your way! xoxoxoxoxo
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xoxoxo
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❤
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Beautiful and filled with love and melancholy. Happier tomorrows await, Dale..
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Thank you, Ina. Yes, they do.
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Q
May his journey forward always be wrapped inside the graceful soul of a timeless friend who left the room much too soon.
B
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B,
I so hope it does. His friend left way too soon but as we know, we have no control over such things.
Q
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We just never know.
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We don’t.
Proof that life is for living in the NOW.
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That’s what they say.
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I believe it.
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I have no words just feelings 💜
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No words are necessary. 🧡
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💜💜💜💜
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🧡🧡🧡🧡
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Your strength and love are beyond words.
Always Holding you in my heart.
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Thank you, Sweet Sawan.
My heart fills with this
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Hard times illuminate the value of friends and family. Well done, Dale.
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Yes, they do. Thank you, Bill.
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Moving and ultimately hopeful Dale.
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Thank you, Andrea. That’s what I was aiming for
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Clearly Patrice left a mark on your family’s heart as well as on your souls. A touching tattoo. Wishing you all comfort as you move forward. 💙
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Yes, he did. He was like an additional kid to me. And an additional brother to my two kids. He was a troublemaker with a huge heart. I will miss him forever. Thank you, so much.
Yes, the tattoo surprised me but didn’t. xoxo
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A forever tribute hat hopefully will help the healing process.
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I like to think so. .
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Such a sad and hard time for you, Dale. Beautifully written, and looking outward, as you always manage to, which is amazing.
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It really is. We are still reeling. I thank you. My sons are already too familiar with death and I think they’ve taken after me is looking forward
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