Lillian has challenged us to write a quadrille using “happiness” or some variation of it for this week’s dVerse prompt. I was going to go fun(ny) but somehow that didn’t work out like I planned. Gotta respect the muse, right?
Happiness cannot be found in bottles
doled out by another’s hand
It may feel lovely upon application
but it only reaches the surface
and fades until the next spray
Once we learn to find it from within
we realise we have an endless supply
So true and a good reminder to all. How about an Aperol and soda with a splash of bourbon?
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I would gladly accept one, thank you.
Glad you liked.
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Wise words. Do you remember the old song “Bottle of Wine”?
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Glad you think so ๐
And yes, I do… well not all the lyrics so it’s playing in the background as I type ๐
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It seem quite relevant still.
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Indeed.
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Nicely said. Although the most expensive whisky is never opened.
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Thanks, James. Ain’t that the truth.
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….and we should all let it out every day!
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Yes!
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Dear Dale,
Happiness can’t be bought can it? It certainly isn’t imbibed. Although a well prepared pho makes my taste buds and tummy happy. Well written. Well said, my friend. (Your friendship makes me happy.)
Shalom and lotsa cheerful hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
No, it cannot. And we cannot get it from others – at least not always. A well-prepared something does make our taste buds happy. Thank you, my friend. Yours makes me happy, too.
Shalom and lots of happy love,
Dale
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Very true, and so beautifully said. โค๏ธโค๏ธ
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Thank you, Lucy. ๐
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Yes! There IS an endless supply within. Doesn’t mean we can’t use an outside refill … to keep the batteries topped up … xoxo!
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Absolutely! And the outside refill adds to what we already have, don’t you think? xoxo
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TOTALLY! And it is always good to have a bit of a ‘stash’ in the Joy Pantry. ๐
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For shizzle!
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Very true, and well said. It definitely comes from within, and unlike a bottle, there is an endless supply.
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Glad you think so ๐
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I do!
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So true… Good one, Dale!
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Thank you, Eliza! I’m thinking this comes with maturity ๐
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Yes, live and learn! ๐
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Thank goodness!! ๐
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I think this one was perfect. Thanks, Dale
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Awww, thanks, John!
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Some people find what they call happiness in the things they can buy. Maybe they just confuse pleasure with happiness?
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I think so. I have a friend who says he will never be happy. Nothing to do with things but with his definition of it…
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I can understand it. My dad was the same. Happiness as an ongoing stream of well-being doesn’t exist except for people who are really not affected by the world they live in.
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True. It is not an easy way to live, I should think.
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No, but should life be easy?
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I don’t think so… But it doesn’t have to be so damn hard for some ๐
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You’d think not, but the Lord moves in mysterious ways… ๐
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This is true. Unfortunately, I know only too well.
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I know you’ve had tragedy, and I don’t know how you deal with it.
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Like anyone else. ๐ I figure I’m no better, no worse than others who’ve had difficulties.
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I’m sure you’re a rock. Now, at least.
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Resilient is the new buzzword used for me. I’m just a realist who doesn’t believe in the “why me?” thing
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Best attitude, since the only answer is ‘why not?’
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๐Which is exactly what I do say.
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This is lovely Dale.
And sometimes, the muse just wants to be seen clearly without ‘humour’ fogging up her truth. (sort of like how alcohol disguises pain… or something like that! ) ๐
Love your poem dear Dale.
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Thank you, lovely Louise!
Yes, sometimes the muse kicks humour to the curb. And that’s quite all right.
So glad you did. (I’m in catch up mode and have a bunch of Dare Boldly to read!
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I actually wrote my PhD dissertation of female alcoholism….and interviewed many many women for it….including Lois Wilson one year, almost to the day, before she died. She was the wife of Bill W who wrote the Big Book for Alcoholic Anonymous….and she started Alanon. You’ve written a truism here. For some, it is so hard to come out from under the bottle. Happiness is fleeting for the individual who tries to find it in a substance…..bless the work of AA and individuals and organizations who seek to help.
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It’s so funny… I didn’t even think of alcohol at all when writing this but the only picture I could find of bottles (in general) in my huge stash were these, taken from a bar…
I was using bottles more as a metaphor but hey, this does work too!
I actually love when what I write is interpreted differently than what I had in mind. Thank you, Lillian!
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Always from within… it lasts longer! ๐๐๐๐ฅด
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I say so, too. Plus, when you don’t have to depend on another, you’re not left wanting. ๐๐
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Good write, Dale. This poem sort of reminded me of alcohol / alcoholism, even though I don’t think that was your intention.
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Thank you and no. I’m seeing that it is being perceived as such. Oh well… Guess my wording sent peeps there.
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This is deep ๐
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Ya think? ๐๐งก
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I do ๐
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There is no bottled happiness… yet so many feel that this is their only option… maybe their within is simply without…
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No there isn’t (and I wasn’t talking alcohol, just so you know). They haven’t learned to love themselves, I’m thinking.
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Who’s to say bottles don’t provide a joyous medicinal value to the erstwhile partaker? lol. It has been rumored that the healing qualities of such potions, while short term, are still quite potent enough to sustain. I mean, I was told this by a friend of a friend of a friend, so I may be WAY off base on the matter.
I’ll check with Wolf Blitzer after the election and see what he thinks. ๐
B
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B,
Yanno… I shoulda changed my bottles for something else because I was so not talking about booze! LOL… No matter, the gist is still the same.
You do that, and keep me posted, wouldja?
Q
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Dammit! I really AM a one key pianist sometimes. But those bottles . . they just looked so dreamy and well . . one thought led to another and well . . the next thing I know my brain was coated in caramel logic and well . . .
I forgot what I was saying . . .
WITHOUT a bottle.
Damn.
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No, no… It’s my fault. I put up a picture of a bar! I couldn’t find more, um, innocent bottles… and they are really dreamy so why wouldn’t you allow your thoughts to drift towards that caramel elixir flavoured logic…
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Hot Damn.
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It’s a fine looking bar, I’ll admit it.
Mmmmm, caramel elixir.
It does, don’t it?
Haha!
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It is quite pretty. I can imagine how when the sun hits it at a certain angle…
Good stuff.
That it do.
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Indeed. Ring the bell . . .
It is.
Saweet!
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Ding! Ding! Ding!
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Very!
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Winna Winna!
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Much so!
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Woo hoo!
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Woota! Woota!
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I cannot argue with this. It’s right. I find incredible happiness in surficial things at times. But it’s fleeting. It is.
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Thank you for that. And yes, it is fleeting when the happiness comes from superficial things. Not that we don’t derive pleasure but it is not sustainable.
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Yeah. Although tonight it might be the only thing that gets me through.
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You know… alcohol was not even in my mind when I wrote this. That said, I think Imma crack one open ๐
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You and me both!
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Beautiful, Dale!
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Thank you, Jan!
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Yes, you are so right about this!
Dwight
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Thank you, Dwight! ๐
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You are welcome.
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Very wise words Dale, pray more realise it!
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Thank you, Kate. All starts with self-love, I think.
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exactly what I said in mine ๐
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Yes! We are in cahoots, so to speak ๐
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Oh! And I wanted to tell you how lovely your poem looks. It looks like an earring!
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oh I hadn’t noticed, will take a look, thanks!
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Think old-fashioned style ๐
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oh my goodness, so it does! Purely accidental I assure you ๐
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Isn’t it pretty? Like an old-fashioned tear-drop style… I picture a pearl-like sheen to it ๐
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there is definitely a likeness … I don’t usually view my post after publishing, thanks for pointing it out Dale!
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You don’t? I can’t help but make sure all is as I want it to look. So funny…
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I have few tech skills and their editor is not user friendly … often some of my post is centred and one stanza not, etc and nothing I can do will make it all one or the other!
So avoid the angst ๐
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I won’t use their damn editor. I still do the classic…
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same here but it also can be temperamental ๐
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True… WP has become rather annoying
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very annoying but still the best blog provider for commenting and communicating with each other!
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This is true… But man… I wonder how much the respect their users
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not much at all …
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truth here, advertisers rely on our insecurities to thrive, don’t they? If we could just find love for ourselves from within, all the beauty companies would fold. I’m sure this poem could be interpreted many ways, but I immediately thought of my former addiction to beauty creams, haha!
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Thank you, Trish. And yes, they thrive, nay, they create our insecurities. I’ve been saying it for years. They need us to need them. And I’m so glad you didn’t see alcohol ๐ – it was the furthest from my mind. I do love the various interpretations, though. Beauty creams, another’s approval, jewels, whatever. ๐
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yes! the image of bottles can hold so much can’t it! Poetry gold, haha!
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Yes! That’s what I was aiming for. Love it!
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True, but there is some pleasure in the search, no? ๐
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Absolutely! ๐
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Happiness swells from a bottomless well within us… as does love. Something to be given in generous portions to all around us
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I so agree!
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So true. Reminds me of my favorite verse in the Tao Te Ching is V47 (Witter Bynner rendition):
There is no need to run outside
For better seeing,
Nor to peer from a window.
Rather abide
At the center of your being;
For the more you leave it,
the less you learn.
Search your heart and see
If he is wise who takes each turn:
The way to do is to be.
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This is wonderful, Lisa. Thank you.
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You are very welcome.
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I totally agree, Thunder!
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So glad you do!
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YES, the endless supply from within! If we can let this sink in deep enough to all our cells–think of what a world it might be.
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It would be another level of wonderful..
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Great use of that metaphor Dale, it’s perfect.
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Thank you, Andrea. So glad you thought so
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Dale! You wrote this 6 days ago and so much has happened since then. Here’s hoping you are tapping into that endless supply. Here’s hoping each of us is doing that.
44 words and you made each one count. Superb. ~J
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I did!
Tell me about it. Was a busy six days. I am trying to. It hasn’t been easy, though.
Thank you for your kind words.
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Words to live by. Thank you ๐๐
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Thank you, Ruchira!
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Very true! Well penned! โบ๏ธ
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Thank you!
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Brilliant words
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Why thank you!
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