I was reading Pam’s wonderful Christmas tale, “The Last Christmas Gift”. Do please go and read it here … it might help explain my sudden inspiration to “pen” this. Pam’s story was so beautifully written that I found myself sitting in the circle she described, drinking my own cup of hot chocolate or coffee, or both, that I stopped reading and went to make myself a mocha coffee before returning to her tale.
Memories were now evoked of the times my mother made for us, and that I later made for my kids, hot chocolate, using real cocoa from the yellow and red Fry’s can, sugar, and a small amount of cold milk to create a smooth, mud-like texture before slowly adding the hot milk while stirring it all together. No lumps guaranteed if you make it this way. Sometimes there were marshmallows, most times not. Mom wasn’t into instant anything, except Minute Rice, but that was only for her rice salad, never anything else.
Why is it that things that take just a bit longer to make, meaning you had to wait for it, taste so much more? To make this come-in-from-the-cold treat all the better, Mom served it with buttered toast. And that’s another thing, what is it about afternoon or nighttime toast smells and tastes like it comes from a whole other dimension? You can’t even compare it to the toast served with your eggs and yet it’s the same product.
Now I’m mad at myself for not making a toast to go with… then again, it’s not late enough in the afternoon to justify it. I think this is my cue to go out and get my 10K steps. There are only seven days left for me to be able to say I did it for one whole year.
For the Canadians and Brits and the areas in the States that celebrate, Happy Boxing Day! For those with no holiday, Happy Sunday! I hope you have been able to take time away from the hustle and bustle of Christmas preparations and over-eating and just be.
Happy Boxing Day. We have unboxing day today.
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Thank you, Tim! Haha! I have to admit I avoid all stores on Boxing Day (especially since now, most places have Boxing Week…)
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Sound like a good way to go out for the season’s beatings. I had to run out to Costco on Christmas Eve. I was expecting it to be mobbed. There was hardly anyone there. It was a pleasant surprise. The checkers were waiting for people to check out. I think that’s the first time I checked out at Costco without waiting in line.
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It’s funny. I went out on Christmas Eve to get a last-minute prezzie and was like..where are the peeps? Why didn’t I do ALL my shopping on that day? The only places that were busy, were the grocery stores!
I’m thinking I should have gotten what I wanted at Costco, in the end. I could tell by the parking lotthat it would be pleasant…and would end up spending more than I wanted…
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Definitely a harzard at Costco. I came home with some extra holiday treats and Laurie was getting after me because she didn’t think we had the fridge and freezer space. I had no problem fitting things in. Especially after I ate a lot of it.
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Oh yes! Impossible to buy solely what is on the list (if we actually write it down…)
And you are so funny!
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We text eachother lists on our phones. Yep so hard to stick to the list.
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I do that with my kids, too. Still managed to go off list pretty much every single time… sigh.
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When Laurie and Tristan want something they think I might not approve of the put it on the list. And I’m usually dumb enough to get it. They call it “the power of the list!”
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Hahahahaha!! Love it! 🤣😂
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Tristan just post a long story about the MLP in answer to your question about a story behind it.
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I was going to ask where but never mind… I see the response… am going to read it now 🙂
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Nice Dale!
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Thank you, Di!
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That’s heartwarming Dale. My mon made chocolate pudding that we ate before it cooled off. Burnt tongues were the rule. I made hot cocoa with grilled cheese sandwiches cut in triangles for my little guy ( over 6 feet now). No Boxing Day here. As Tim said it’s unboxing day. Lots of love to you!
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Thank you, Rene. I love your share. Hot chocolate with grilled cheese? Why not? If we can eat it with ketchup… that sweet salty thing.
So glad my story evoked by Pam’s story, evoked a memory for you!
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Yes, some fond memories. I found out my son has COVID on Christmas Day . He too is a medical professional. He’s vaccinated and it seems like a mild case. Of course I’m going bananas.
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Ah gee! Of course you are going bananas. How can you not? So sorry your son has it but relieved it seems to be a mild case (as it is for my brother-in-law, nephew, nieces and, I last heard, my sister… Fun stuff.
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A super post, Dale. It’s funny, but I remember the hot cocoa that the grade school cooks made for Safty Patrol boys during the cold winter school days. (our job was to stand on the curb at a crosswalk and make sure the kids would look both ways and only cross when safe. We were the last into school and to a mug of hot steaming cocoa as a reward. I haven’t thought of those days for eons. Such is the memory power of your post. Thanks.
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Thank you, John. I so love that you were brought down your own memory lane thanks to mine. That’s the power of writing and why I love it so much.
To think today, the safety patrol is done by retired adults 🙂
And you’re welcome 🙂
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I don’t know how many years I was a safety patrol member but it seemed like forever
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Maybe a “few” years… 😉
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Yes. I think you are right.
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Dear Dale,
There are those precious memories that are unique to each of us. Thank you for sharing yours so generously. Your toast memory triggered mine although not the same. My mother’s ‘sick food’ wasn’t chicken soup as you might expect from a Jewish mother. It was a soft boiled on buttered toast. Or warm milk with butter and sugar for a cold and sore throat.
Sweet memories.
Shalom and memorable hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
I love when a post like this evokes memories in others – and that they are generous enough to share them. This is the best part of this whole blogging thing, don’t you think? I love the idea of a soft boiled on buttered toast. Butter and sugar with warm milk, tool Glad I triggered some sweet memories for you , too.
Shalom and lots of memorable love,
Dale
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Who needs to justify toast. Not I, and nor should you. Today I made bread rolls – just because. Hope Christmas and Boxing Day were just as you wished. Enjoy whatever other time off you have. 🌲😻
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Oh no, there is no reason NOT to have toast! I was just saying it somehow tastes all the better in the afternoon or evening 😉
It was quiet but lovely. Hope yours was all you hoped for!
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Quiet but lovely is a very good description too!
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I honestly am not 100% sad that it is the way it turned out. Yes, it would have been way more fun to party with my sisters and their families but since that was not an option, then hey, let us enjoy what we did have 🙂
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Q
Me and Ari drink Abuelita’s Hot Chocolate. It’s a spicy, Mexican hot cocoa that is like a candy bar. You take a piece and break it off and melt it in a saucepan with milk. As you say, it takes a little time to prepare this, but damn if it’s not the best. So worth it! It’s always that way, when you take a little extra time . . so much better than Swiss Miss! 😉
Happy Boxing Day(?)! I KNEW you guys were aggressive but this is getting ridiculous!
B
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Ah hah! I am not surprised you have an Abuelita tradition. That is wonderful! And sounds divine. Swiss Miss is sweet nothing, as far as I am concerned. Anything, when you take the extra time, is so worth it.
Hey. You guys decided to drop it when you dropped the King. What can I say? We adopted your god-forsaken Black Friday… ugh.
Q
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Ari got me started on it. She caught the fever from her grandmother (Kim’s mama) who grew up there. So worth it!
I’m sorry about the Black Friday thing. You have no idea how sorry I am about the Black Friday thing . . .
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And here I thought it was from your side! Oh wait… Mexican, not Cuban! Silly me. The Mexicans love to add that lovely spice to chocolate. I haven’t done it in a while. Now, I know what I’m having tomorrow afternoon.
Yanno. Nothing stops us from ignoring the whole thing (other than when poor you have to work it, of course).
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No, my side was the womanizing, the vendettas and the low key alcoholism. It was more fun at the time, I guess . . . but it doesn’t travel well.
Of course.
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Right, right. What was I thinking? They do tend to not.
Which, I am proud to say, I do!
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Nope, they don’t LOL
Woop!
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Whoop de woop!
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What a beautiful memory! I am so pleased to have been a small part of it.
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Thank you for evoking it! Isn’t is grand how we inadvertently pass it on? 🙂
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Yummy Hot Cocoa made from scratch. Yum. I remember Ovaltine fondly also.
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Oh yes! I made Jamie Oliver’s mix that includes Ovaltine malted milk, grated chocolate, cocoa… it is so good!
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Please, send me a mug of it through the pixels. I’ll be forever grateful. YUM!!!!!
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Coming up! 🙂
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:::raising my mug to you::: Cheers!
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Clink! Cheers!
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A cup pf hot chocolate sounds great right now as we, snug in our lair, watch the snow falling gently over the land. Now that the snow has started it seems set to just keep on.
As to Boxing Day — or Boxing Week — I was a little dismayed to see “Boxing week sale starts early!” ads appear about Dec 15th. Sigh. In the US this is likely the kickoff for Post-Christmas Sales, or End of Year Blowout Sale. Ours will be “Boxing Week Sale” right up until “New Year’s Extravaganza” starts Dec 31st. (I know — I’m becoming a cynic. 😉 )
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Hot chocolate is always so nice when it’s cold outside. We had some yesterday and today, too.
Ugh. I am so done with the Boxing Day, Week, Blowout… Ridonkulous. I’m so not a fan and I refuse to shop during these.
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Made-from-Scratch always tastes better. However, for Christmas, my spouse received Stonewall Kitchen’s peppermint hot cocoa mix and I must admit it is the best I’ve ever had. Their secret must be the cocoa, cuz’ sugar is just sugar. 😉
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That it does. And Stonewall Kitchen anything is a cut above so, I can totally believe it’s a good quality cocoa. And, if you heat milk to make it, it’s a level up from the instant with boiling water 😉
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Happy Boxing Day, Dale! I will have to come back to read the story, but I commented earlier on someone else’s blog that I always used to make hot cocoa and cinnamon toast for my kids for when they came in from playing in the snow. Yes, always real cocoa!
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Thanks! I’ve never celebrated it in my life except to say thank you for the extra day off 😉 My dad liked to shop on this day… because once upon a time, it was only a day. But just like Black Friday, they like to stretch things out…
Mmmm. Hot cocoa and cinnamon toast. You are the best mom! And I never would have expected you to use anything else 😉
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You’re welcome. 😀😘
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🙂 😘
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You are so right about toast coming from another dimension, when eaten late at night. 🙂 It’s like a secret you want to keep safe. Great post and Happy Boxing Day.
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It IS like a secret you want to keep safe. I like that. I am getting ready to go out there. it is 1F and I shall be treating myself upon my return 🙂
Happy Monday!
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Oh no… It’s 37c/100f out and now I feel like hot chocolate. See what you did? Spread a hot chocolate virus!
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Holy hell!! Not here. Mind you, it’s pretty mild for this time. Today was -1C, no big whup.
And sorry ’bout that! 😉
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We had our hottest Christmas/Boxing Day on record — 43C. It just isn’t Christmas if your not sweating like a pig. 😀🥵. Mind sending some snow? -1C is good hot drink weather with a good book.
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Eeesh… We hit that type of hot and humid in the summer and it’s positively wretched. Today is way chillier. it’s -11, feels like -17 so I shall have to add a layer when I go out for my walk… But, the return will definitely merit a hot chocolate with toast, don’t you think?
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Ah, Dale… beautiful, mouthwatering memories. I wonder why everything tasted so much better then…
Happy Boxing Day and week ahead. Last one of the year and 7 more days to go (about time! 🤣)! Woohoo!!!! 😉
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Ahh Marina… glad you like 😉 And it did taste different then but I have to say, give me an afternoon toast with a hot chocolate today and I am brought right back there.
Happy Monday. 6 more days to my challenge! Woooooot! 😉
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Yes… I know what you mean. Our mind is the most perfect time machine! 😉
Happy Monday! Yay!!!!!! 6 days!!!!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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Indeed. I love when it is poked.
And I don’t work for another 9 days! Woot!
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Oh now, this is an extra bonus!!!!!!
🌟🤗😘😘😘😘😘
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Ya baby! 🤗😘🤗😘
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Hoorayyyyyy!!!!
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xoxoxo
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Lovely ‘penned’ yearning, Dale. Such wonderful pleasure need no justification. I’m a day late, so happy National Fruitcake Day (December 27th in United States).
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Thank you, Bill. Isn’t it lovely to have memories stirred like this? There is no late. Fruitcake Date, eh? Just so happens I’m bringing some of mine to my esthetician in a few minutes. I have to say, mine is pretty damn good – the fruitcake for those who say they don’t like it. 😉
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I looked up the day. 🙂 I also had to look up esthetician, Have a wonderful day. 🙂
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Didja now? Aren’t you glad I didn’t write it the British way? Aesthetician…
Have a wonderful day, you too! I’ll be going out for my walk soon. Shall have to bundle a bit more than usual. It’s all of 12, feels like 1 – that would be Fahrenheit…
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We don’t celebrate Boxing Day here, but I’m good with another holy-day! My daughter-in-law sent some Korean (or Japanese?) cappucino in a box. We shall see how this goes. It’s lovely reading your toast & hot chocolate memoirs. (I was going to write memories but memoirs came out of the typing fingers instead.)
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It is more of a Brit holiday that we Canadians kept. Interesting. Do let us know how it tastes! So glad you enjoyed my memoir which is really a memory, isn’t it? 😀
Have a lovely Monday!
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A nice cuppa hot chocolate is a bit like a hug. So gentle and delish. Congrats for making and fulfilling your 10K/day commitment. Bravo and very well done!
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It is! I just got in from a nice long walk in the cold. I’m thinking….
I’m almost there! January 2 is my last day! Whoop! Whoop!
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First off, I’m so glad you made yourself some! Sounds like a lovely hour of relaxing. And second, I couldn’t agree with you more on things that take a bit of time. I made homemade lemon curd this Christmas and it really does blow away the store-bought kind. Same with oatmeal–I make it the long way and it’s so much more enjoyable. Happy Boxing Day to you, Dale!
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I’m with you Kristine on all of that homemade version vs store-bought. I also make the slow oatmeal. Mmmm. So satisfying!
Happy Monday to you, Kristine! 😀
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Your memories brought so many memories, Dale. Delicious writing and I loved that the Minute Rice was only used for the salad which speaks volumes about your Mother. PS Enormous well done for your 10K, what an achievement.
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Thank you, Jilly. Try as she might to make her rice salad with regular rice, it was all wrong! I have a box for the exact same reason 🙂 And thank you. Five more days and I can walk or run without worrying how many steps they include 😉
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It’s Tuesday morning here in New England, and now that I’ve read your post (after reading Pam’s as you suggested!) I’m off to make myself a toast (with peanut butter – need the protein) and a mug of hot chocolate. Yum – thanks for the inspiration. 🙂
PS (I only make the slow oatmeal, and the slow Cream of Wheat. Yes, slow tastes better)
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Tuesday afternoon here. And I am so glad you read both. Peanut butter has its place, that is for sure! Yum. Hope you enjoyed your cup and toast!
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Of course you do. We completely understand that slow is always better (well, for many things 😉 )
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Thank you, Dale. I enjoyed the sweet reminder of the drummer boy in Pam’s story of “The Last Christmas Gift”. Wishing you a Happy New Year.
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So glad you enjoyed my little trip down memory lane and that you went to visit Pam’s story that inspired it!
Happy New year to you and yours!
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I did. Thank you, Dale. I’d forgotten about that story. Happy New Year to you, too, and loved ones.
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Thank you!
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🤤🤤🤤
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Nice
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Thanks
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Brilliant, Dale, you’ve just made me sooooo hungry
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Thank you, my friend. There is something about afternoon hot chocolate and toast 😉
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That’s how I’ve always made hot cocoa!
Many have become too, conditioned to making a food or drink that takes mere minutes to make from scratch.
It reminds me of an old SNL skit from the original cast… years ago.
“frozen toast”…just take it out of the freezer, and pop it in the toaster! Lololol!!!
xoxo ⚡️💥
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Yummy!
Frozen toast! LOL!
xoxoxo 💞🧚🏻♀️✨
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Hahaha! xo
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😀 xoxo
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