A word prompt to get your creativity flowing this weekend. How you use the prompt is up to you. Write a piece of flash fiction, a poem, a chapter for your novel…anything you like. Or take the challenge below – there are no prizes – it’s not a competition but rather a fun writing exercise. If you want to share what you come up with, please leave a link to it in the comments. Thank you for hosting Sammi. I love when a thought comes to mind while watching mindless TV!
Hindsight is 20/20 Vision
I watch Emily in Paris with a middle-aged woman’s wistfulness,
having never dared to go outside the comfort of my known box
To have the temerity to take a job in a country
where you don’t speak the language or know the culture
What an experience!
Naturally, we see things differently over time
Today, I say I wish I could have
Then, it never would have crossed my mind
Dear Dale,
I started to watch that show and then decided I wasn’t getting into it. Perhaps I’ll give it another go. Love the write. Hindsight is always 20/20.
Shalom and lotsa courageous hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
It is light fare, to be sure. No brain required and not something I thought I would enjoy but here I am into season 2.
Hindsight is always 20/20, isn’t it?
Shalom and lotsa love,
Dale
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There’s always space on the bucket list!
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You do have a point!
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It does take gall to work in Gaul without knowing the lingo. Excellent story in 69.
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Merci beaucoup. I, of course, could 😉 But we can change the country to one where I do not. Thank you kindly!
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I am one of “Timerity” (more on the foolish end), but I don’t think I have to gall to work in Gaul. French is not my bailiwick.
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LOL! Love it. I don’t doubt you have loads of Timerity 🙂 And yes, it would be more difficult not knowing the lingo, that is for sure.
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I was only in Paris as a child, but perhaps you can go there on your way to Italy because I’m sure you will make it back there again!
You know, I’m not sure that hindsight is 20/20 simply because we do see it through another lens.
I haven’t watched the show.
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I was supposed to go to Burgundy (for a cooking class like I did in Tuscany) both in 2019 and 2020. Both times had to cancel. A woman I met in Tuscany is booked once again for this April but I am still uncomfortable with the idea at this time. I like to think that one day, life will return to some semblance of order!!
I think you are absolutely right.
It’s very light… no brain required light 😉
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Daughter and son-in-law had a trip to Europe planned when the first wave of Covid struck, and they had to cancel it.
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Yeah. Story of so many of our lives. The first time I cancelled was because I still hadn’t sold my house and the timing was not good. (Kinda regret that one, now.)
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We went to Epcot at the beginning of December. When I saw the photo for this post I said to myself “this has got to be Epcot!” Glad I was right. It would drive me crazy if there was a part of Paris that actually looked like the Disney-fied version.
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Haha! Yeah, it is so I am glad you don’t have to go crazy! It was taken back in 2009 – a most memorable vacation that I shall write about one day. 🙂
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Ah, temerity. What a great word and something I need more of. 🙂 Great poem!
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It is a great word. And while it can have negative connotations, I prefer the positive one 😉
Thank you, Jan! 🙂
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I too, always dreamed I would, I should, but never did. But my sons have and it’s almost the same thing only better!
Thanks for the inspiration! https://michellehuelle.com/2022/01/09/the-temerity-of-that-woman/
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Thank you, Michelle. I got so caught up in your story and previous one, that I forgot to thank you for this lovely comment and letting me know I inspired you 🙂
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It’s easy to look back and think of doing things differently. But we live in the moment and in those past moments, we all did what we thought was the only thing to do. LOL Times change and what we an do today, we really couldn’t do in the past. But it’s still fun to dream.
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It sure is. And in all seriousness, I am with you. I am very a live-in-the moment. And to be honest, I wouldn’t have even considered making such a choice back then. Wonder if I would today!!
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I loved Paris. I pity anyone who didn’t know the language. Parisians are not very accomodating.
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I hope to visit it one day. Even though I have the unfortunate “problem” of having a Québécois accent which is completely looked down upon, from what I hear… 😉
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Try an American accent. Typical interchange. “Bonjour.” “Eh?” “Bonjour.” “Eh?” “Bonjour.” “Uh, oui, bonjour.”
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Haha! All I have to do is speak uppity French. I should be okay 😉
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Can you speak uppty French?
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Bien sûr! 😉
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Aimer! 😁
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🥰
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🤗
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Dale, Burgundy will still be there for you when you’re ready. I spent a few holidays near Montpellier and really fell in love with rural France. I hope you will go because I have an idea you will love it.
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I know that, Jilly. And I will make it there, eventually. I have zero doubt I will love it!
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‘What if?’ is such a big question! I think if the drive was there, an attempt would be made. (That’s how I comfort myself when thinking back. I did what I felt able to do at the time!)
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“What if” is a useless question. You are absolutely right. And, to be honest, I never would have even considered taking a job “outre-mer” (overseas)…
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I loved to travel in my 20s. Work? Not so much! 😀
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I WISH I had travelled in my 20s. I went absolutely nowhere. Was stupid enough to live with a man (who had a son that we had every weekend) for five years from ages 21-26 – talk about prime age to actually go out and live. Ugh. I know, I know, No time for regrets…
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My parents died in their 50s and it gave me the idea that if there was anything I wanted to do, I’d best do it sooner than later, as one never really knows what the future will bring. Definitely glad I did it, as there’d be no way I’d have the energy to do that now (even without a plague raging)!
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So young! I am very glad that you used that as a springboard to living your life as fully as possible. It is only too true that we have no idea how many years we will have. I am hoping this damn plague comes to an end sooner than later. I have some catching up to do!
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Indeed, we all do. There’s gonna be some major ‘breaking out’ when this is all over! 😀
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Methinks you are right!!
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🙂
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Well composed, Dale.
My niece did that. Two kids later, a still pending (French) divorce, learning the lingo (and got jobs), almost a citizen; I must wonder what her hindsight would tell her. Outcome is pending.
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Thank you, kid sir.
I dunno about moving “forever” but a year-long contract could be interesting! Maybe even six months, four 😉
Unfortunate for your niece that it did not work out but there are no guarantees in love, no matter where you live.
Hope it works out in her favour 🙂
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I might. But not France. However, a visit may be in my future. 🙂
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Oh yeah? You might? Where would you like to go?
A visit is definitely in my future… When this damn virus is under control.
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It’s really my wife’s niece is in France, and she wants to go. there. Belgium is a maybe, but they (granddaughter) vaca in So. France where niece lives too., so???
Ireland, Germany, (does Canada count?)? I really don’t know.
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Your wife’s niece is yours too 😉
That is so cool. I wish I had someone to visit elsewhere. All my family are a drive away.
I tried to apply for a job that would take me to Belgium. Of course, as most jobs on LinkedIn, it was bullshit.
I would go anywhere. So many places on my list!
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Yes, she is my niece too. 🙂 Who knows?
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😀
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You always take the good side of things and I love that! Temerity too!
I say, good for her!
Hugs your way! xoxoxo
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You know me. I have trouble doing otherwise.
Hugs received and returned! xoxo
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❤🤗❤🤗❤
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💞😊💞
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💗💜💗
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What if ….. 💜💜💜🦄🦄🦄
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What if, indeed… 🧡🧡🧡🌻🌼🌻
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I don’t know if I’ll ever see Paris – a bit “big city” for me – but I loved Epcot! Crowded, yes, but in a much smaller area. Loved your take on temerity.
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It’s funny. I went to Tuscany and was chastised for not going to Rome. I said I would eventually make it there but for now, I wanted to concentrate on this little section. I think I’d feel the same way about Paris. I would like to visit but I’m pretty sure I’d prefer the countryside.
And thank you, Eilene! Epcot was great. I loved it.
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Another wonderful personal account. I haven’t been to Paris – but want to. However, I have been close by changing planes at CDG.
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Thank you, Frank. It almost qualifies (the changing of planes, that is) 😉
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I did see the Eifel Tower in the distance from the air.
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It counts! 😉
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You’re too generous … but nope … doesn’t count. To being, being in the airport doesn’t count on being in France. Fortunately, I have been to France.
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I know. 😉
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Sounds like a genuine regret. If it wasn’t, then it’s very well written to be so convincing 🙂
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Sweet. then I done good 😉
As mentioned, back then, I probably would never have considered it. Today, I would jump at the chance! 😀
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I did it! I moved to France without speaking the language and had a position within a company controlling their British operation! It’s surprising how quickly you learn the linguistic basics like how to order a beer, sorry, une bière!
Btw, great fan of Emily in Paris!
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Woot! Good for you, mon cher! Of course, there are always the things one must learn first: how to cuss and how to order drink!
It’s a fun and colourful show. 😊
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If you’re interested I wrote about one of my early experiences for Friday Fictioneers 6 years ago – https://keithsramblings.blogspot.com/2016/01/entant-cordial.html
If you click the link you’ll see that 100 people took part that week – how things have changed!
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I remember that challenge… I was less good at reading them all then and I remember when there were 100 participants (not sorry it has changed, to be honest). (I was number 78). I see you were not so vaillant at responding to all the comments either 😉
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We watched season 1 of Emily in gay Paree. *smile* When I was 18 I spent two months in Switzerland in Experiment in International Living. It was a huge leap out of my small-town box. We flew into Paris first, but I was so sick and nauseated with jet-lag that the city remains a blur… We had to spend six weeks immersed in a language camp before going, but it was probably still temerity.
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I just finished Season 2. Honestly, was fun to watch. Wow! How great that you did that! A friend of mine did, I believe 2 semesters of her masters in Norway. I thought that was so cool.
Bummer you were sick, though. I think that is very temerity 🙂
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I’m lucky enough to have travelled all over Europe when I was younger – but then it’s a lot closer to me 🙂 I always wanted to live there for a while and did once apply to be an au pair – fortunately I didn’t get a placement because with hindsight I don’t think I was mature enough to have been able to cope with it very well. And never say never, Paris is within reach 🙂
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Everything is just a train ride away for you! And I’m happy for you that you took advantage of it. Being an au pair would never have been a good fit for me. I love my kids and my sister’s kids, but kids in general? I could take or leave 😉
Oh, I know. One day, I shall stroll the streets of Gay Paree 😉
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Plausible!
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My first husband came home one day when our youngest son (now fifty- one) was four years old and said he was planning a trip for us to England and France. I reminded him that he had said we couldn’t travel because we lacked the money. He replied that he had reconsidered. If we waited until we had enough money, we would be too old to enjoy it. That was the beginning of a lifetime of traveling, even after we went our separate ways, either alone or with a new partner.
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I love his attitude. We wait and we wait and we always find something else. Best to do it now. Mick and I travelled quite a bit. We were finally talking about Italy in 2012 but then my father got sick and died six months later and then Mick himself died a year and some after that. That’s why I went to Italy by myself in 2016. And was planning on travelling more but then moving house and covid decided not yet.
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I’m glad you and Mick did a lot of travelling. I don’t think you are through. You’ve got attitude.
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Temerity goes hand in hand with courage and adventure! Great job, Dale.
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De l’audace de l’audace, disait Danton…
“Wot”, not even close to 69 words?
Darn.
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Oui, oui! et haha!
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“C’est un peu court jeune homme!” A +
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Tu me fais rire!
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The temerity from this fucking poem.. 😆
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I think most people have thoughts such as this, be it about travel or career or having gotten married or having stayed single. To which I, in one of my very few truly diplomatic moments, smile at the thoughts and the second thoughts they possess. I smile because I don’t relate to them, so it’s a learning experience for me. To understand, or try to, their wanting to have done something or gone somewhere.
I use the lesson to tell my daughter to go where she feels like going, now, before the rest of her life starts happening. My son is too much like me, not so much the traveler. Like me, he’s traveled plenty, but he is just as fine with sticking close to home.
That’s life, that difference in us all. I appreciate that difference, because I think it’s where learning happens.
NICE use of this challenge. Very nice. 😉
B
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I think you may be possibly right. Though for this particular piece, I was focused solely on the whole taking a job for a year elsewhere, part. Not everyone has that desire to do such a thing. I know the thought never crossed my mind, to be honest.
I do hope your daughter goes out and explores, if that is her will. Bummer you’ve already travelled plenty.
And yes, the differences in us all, the appreciation of it, can definitely teach us.
Thank you. Glad you thought so.
Q
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It’s something I once imagined. I actually went to Hawaii, for a third time, to scope out stores for rent in Oahu. Nope, too rich for my blood. LOL
She needs to do her Arya, right?
Not saying I’m done. I just am dealing with myself, trying to be better.
I may or may not be many things. But appreciation can always be a part of it.
Loved it. 😉
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Wow. Really? Again, something new about you.
She does, if it calls her, absolutely!
I see you (the Avatar version). Your journey is a valiant one (I think you are succeeding.)
I don’t doubt that for a second.
And I am glad 🙂
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And I was also a hired gun. But I was too emotional, too far inside of my own head to be really good at it 😉
And ‘tively.
It can be, it sure can.
😉
MUAH!
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Smartass.
For shizzle.
Right.
MWAH!
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Haha! Did I say that out loud?
MUAH!
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Haha! That you did!
MWAH!
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Double MUAH!
MUAH!
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MWAH!
MWAH!
MWAH!
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For the WIN!
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😘😘
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I’d have taken a job in another country, but once I got into film it felt like I was in another world.
Actually, I was in other worlds, the worlds of the stories we were telling/filming.
I’ll tell you, it took a lot of temerity to go to producers and directors when I had no experience and sell myself as a designer.
…And I did get sent to Los Angeles and New York a lot. There’s this hotel across from the Whisky A-Go-Go, on the street behind Sunset Blvd. OMG… I had so much fun there. I love NYC!
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I bet you would have. And I suppose working in films does give you a chance to live in a different world.
I have zero doubt that you’ve got more temerity than most!
Oooh… That is so much fun. You have had a most interesting life, Sorceress!
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YES! I’m happy about it..
It started getting good when I ran away from home, and into the arms of musicians, artists, sculptors, etc. ⚡️💥⚡️💥
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Good for you.
You found your tribe. And that is a beautiful thing.
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Yes, it is! xo
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Sweet. I am happy for you. Truly. xoxo
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⚡️💥
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