It’s Wednesday! And that can mean many things. Over here in blogland, it means the start of Friday Fictioneers (don’t ask, just know!) Rochelle has dragged, encouraged me to play by ever so sweetly asking me to use my photo. How could I refuse? More importantly, why would I? Should you feel so encouraged, please do add your link to your 100-word story by clicking on the frog below. G’head. I dare you!
It doesn’t take much, you know. To be made to feel more than, rather than less than, or worse, inconsequential. Sure, the big things are nice and all but in the grand scheme of things, those things are just accumulated stuff. Some stuff you really enjoy. Some you don’t know why the hell you keep except for some misguided sense of obligation. And, if you are not careful, you lose sight of the things you love most amidst said stuff.
It might be cliché but actions do speak louder. Small ones. Big ones. Ones that make sense only to you.
Dear Dale,
Truer words were never spoken. ❤ Well done.
Shalom and small, but meaningful hugs,
Rochelle
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Dear Rochelle,
Thank you, kindly. I believe them..
Shalom and Lotsa meaningful love,
Dale
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Good morning, Dale.
You are so right. People matter. The good things matter. May those things, those gestures, those thoughts be foremost in our minds every day.
Now a must ponder to conjure a mini-fib inspired by a red rose, book shelves, a wood floor, television, and a window in what I presume is your living room. 🙂
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Good morning, Bill
Things are fine and dandy but I’ll take kindness, small gestures and the like.
It is indeed. It will be a while new thing come October (a lot less brickabrack!). And I ain’t worried. You will be your usual brilliant self.
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Good to know. 🙂
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Yeah yeah…😉
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Okay, I’m in. Sort of biographical fiction, but a story is a story. 🙂
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Hey… I would say 95% of mine are autobiographical …so yeah. A story is a story. Gonna go see! 😁
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Good advice Dale 🙂
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Thank you, Iain
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There’s a reason some clichés are clichés. How true on losing sight of your words among all the stuff.
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Yes. Has I enough words, I was going to add that 😉
So easy to lose sight.
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Or should it be “Has I got enough words?”
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Maybe it should be:. Had I enough words, I would have included that clichés are based on truth!
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The truth be told. Not common these days. Especially with the crap coming out of the lying Truth Commissions. These recent departments, agencies, cabinets of truth, or whatever they want to call them are the perfect example of if you want to know what any manifestation of government really does, you take its name and apply the opposite.
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Now THAT is sadly true. Create commissions and divisions and whatnot to further remove themselves from the truth…
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Truth and history. The ones who control information can dictate what they want to believe is the truth. The winners write history from their perspectives. Neither is close to reality.
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This is so very true!
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Oh, yes they do make perfect sense! 😉
Many hugs your way! xoxo
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Of course they do! 😉
Many, yours!! xoxo
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Mouwah!!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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There is nothing worse than being taken for granted…. Just existing 💜💜
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I hear you!! 🧡🧡
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Ah, yes. We should remember that in actions, many small things accumulate into very Karl things. Good & bad. Good story.
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Yes, indeed! It’s amazing how much little things become way too much. Thank you, Jan.
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Less is definitely more in the case of the rose!
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I think so, too. 😉
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Yep. Much fuss is made of big romantic gestures, but just making you a cup of tea or a meal after a hard day speaks louder than any number of red roses. Lovely stuff, Dale
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Hey there Lynn!
I agree. Big romantic gestures are not a bad thing but man oh man, you are right, coming home to a cooked meal is fabulous and so appreciated.
Thank you!
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This is so true. It’s those small things that add up (unfortunately good or bad). And actions do indeed speak, and mean so much more than pretty promises or grand gestures that don’t really mean anything.
Your room is so inviting. I can imagine sitting there having a loving chat with you! 💙
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I know it’s true! I’m having a garage sale because of all the stuff! 😉
Actions yell… And pretty promises come on empty air unless they deliver.
Why thank you. I actually cannot wait to have it all ripped out and redone. But it sri allowed for loving (and lovely 😉) chats!
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You’re welcome. 😊
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I meant lovely chat. 🤣🤣
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I’m with ya on the small stuff, that is, often times, quite big inside the heart. It’s that stuff that matters, after all. Not the other ‘stuff’ … 😉 Thank you for this lovely photo, by the by, and I hope it is okay I took the liberty to describe your abode as if it is my character’s pad. All I can say is, it was written with love. 🙂 Your NYNF
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Stuff being stuff and all that 😉 Glad you liked. You’re welcome for the photo and no worries on that front! Gonna go see right now!
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Yay! 🙂 Me liked a lot.
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Sa-weet!
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Agree 100% – Small things, small gestures and a bit of “thinking of you” are what is important.
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Absolutely, Trent!
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I’ve always believed it’s the little things in life that matter most. The big things take care of themselves…it’s those little things that impact our hearts most. 💙
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Absolutely. Ofttimes, the big things are guilt-related, anyway 😉 The wiping the snow off your car, making the coffee, whatever – those are constant “I love you” messages.
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…and possibly the best. 💙
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Very true story, Dale. The little things that show we are loved are the memories that live on in the heart.
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Glad you agree, Penny. And they really do. 😊
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Thunder you make me think – Talk the talk, walk the walk.
Your picture says it well. You got a big asp couch, big book shelves, lotsa books, but that 1 impermanent rose makes the shot, makes everything look rich.
BTW – How have you been feeling? Are you 100% yet?
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Glad I do!
So glad you saw all that in the pic!
I feel like you’ve asked me this and I forgot to answer you. Apologies. I am 100%! And that week in Miami didn’t hurt, either…😉
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Yay!!!! ⚡️💥
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Using your photo for the prompt was a surefire way to get you to participate. 🙂 Love the photo and your response. It truly is the simplest of things that can make our hearts sing.
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Rochelle has been sneaky like that… She stoops to levels one cannot dismiss 😂🤣.
So glad you enjoyed both, Jan! And yes,the little things make a big difference.
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Well said, Dale
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Thank you, Neil
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“Some you don’t know why the hell you keep except for some misguided sense of obligation.” Boy, ain’t that the truth! Oh, to free oneself of that. 🙂
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Oh man… I know I am facing all those misguided kept things – I’m renovating my kitchen/living room and bathroom so there will be a huge wave of stuff that I am going to separate myself from!
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Good luck with it… small steps every day so you don’t overwhelm your brain. I see lots of walks in your future, ha! 😉
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Thank you. And yes, that is what I am doing!!
LOL!
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I like how you spoke of what is in the photo without saying anything directly. It leaves so much room to think upon and glean meaning.
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Thank you Clare. So glad you see it, too!
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Four sure, Dale. Talk is, well, talk. Action, otoh…
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Exackery!
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I agree with your every word, long ones and short!
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Hah! Thank you, Keith!
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So very true. Big things, and big events can be nice, but if that’s all there is, it’s not enough. Expertly written, Dale.
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Thank you, Gabriele. I think the little things just show more love.
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As someone currently trying to move house with all the accumulated stuff, I’ll take the little things any day! I enjoyed your musing, and your photograph too. Thank you!
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I thought when I moved house I would get rid of stuff but I didn’t. Now I have to! Plus I’m renovating (trlearing down walls and all) so I’ve no choice.
Glad you enjoyed both musings and photo, Jen
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The stuff we love, the stuff we hate and all that stuff we just can’t throw away. Why do we do it? You can always dispose of a book or a trinket, but it is the emotional stuff that lingers longest. Your story is universal.
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Thank you, James. It really is universal, isn’t it?
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I love this: It might be cliché but actions do speak louder. Small ones. Big ones. Ones that make sense only to you.
I have tried so very hard to get rid of things and make the load lighter, but it is mighty challenging!
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Clichés are based on truth 😊. Small actions out of the blue are the best.
Oh Lordy. I have to. I think my load is starting to wear on my psyche! Those things I do not use nor love must go!
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Your piece so so beautiful and poignant, Dale. We’re encouraged to believe the bigger the better, and that’s not always the case. Less is more can also be the case. i am fighting a losing battle with the amount of books in our house. However, I have at least been reading a few of them lately which is progress, except they’re not the books I plan to part with.
Hope you have a great week, Dale, and good luck with your massive renovation project.
Best wishes,
Rowena
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Thank you so much, Rowena. Bigger is not always better (but not to be discounted, surely!)
Every few books, I take one from the bookshelf with the intention of donating it once read (especially those I know I will never re-read). It is slow going…
And thank you.
Have a lovely day!
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I’m glad you find it slow going. It makes me feel better.
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Very true.
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I think so, too. 😊
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methinks, it’s time to start downsizing for his/her sanity.
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Methinks so too 😉
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You know what means most to me? When someone texts me with a simple question, cos we haven’t conversed of late. You ok? 😊
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We are waaaaaay overdue for a good chat!
And yes, I am OK 🙂
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We are, it’s true. Things have… cycled around for me in a most unexpected way 🙂
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We shall have to find the time to chat and catch up!
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Hi Dale! It’s certainly true that it doesn’t take much to make us feel less than instead of more than. I like how you put that. You are right. The little everyday kind gestures and actions are most important and they are the things that build us up. Wise words, Dale, and we’ll written.
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Hey there Brenda!
Thank you. So glad this spoke to you. Much obliged for the lovely comment!
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It’s so true that we forget to appreciate even the smallest of gestures of things.
Maybe, post pandemic we’ll begin to appreciate more small things – like: freedom to
conncect with familyy and friends. Have a good weekend … Isadora 😎
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Yes, indeed.
I like to think for some the pandemic brought out these little things. If course, it also brought lots of other things!
Have a great weekend!
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So true, Dale. So very true. 🙂
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Thank you, Robin. So glad you agree 😉
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Q
You’ve hit on the essence of all that big stuff that seems to dominate people’s attention. What they don’t realize is that without the little things, all that big stuff wasn’t gonna happen in the first place. And yes, of course it’s not nearly as interesting to the vast majority who want to be dazzled. But it’s the truth, as you have shown.
Splendid little thing of a post. 😉
B
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B,
Yes. For some bigger is better… because they never get the little. A simple gesture can mean so much more.
So glad you think so 🙂
Q
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When the simple gestures ain’t there, it’s just time to move on is all. For those looking bigger, welp, they’re screwed!
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Could not agree more!
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It’s a tie!
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Woot! My kinda tie!
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You got that right.
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MWAH!
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So many interesting ideas in this. We do clutter up our lives, we do attach value to the wrong things. I wonder why. De-cluttering is such a hard process, but so rewarding.
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So glad you think so, Margaret. And we do. Things… so many things. And really, how much some of them mean anything at all but are there. Sigh…
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Sometimes it’s easy to forget the little things, even when they matter the most. Loved your piece 🙂
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This is so true. Thank you, Bernadette!
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I commented somewhere else that my husband is an “acts of service” guy, not a gifter, It is indeed the little things, and the big ones, that enrich my days. Yesterday he ordered a new recliner for me, with a motorized lift to help me stand without pain. It has many other features as well, including being sized for short people :). That’s a very big thing, in my opinion, an act of service that I will treasure for, probably, the rest of my life!
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Acts of service trump things any day in my book! In your case he got you a thing that will make your life easier, not something where you have to bend down to pick up the fallen petals 😉 Way better, I say!
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Absolutely, Dale. I don’t often get flowers from him, but when he does something for me, it’s usually on a grand scale :). And this chair will make my life better, whereas the flower would have brightened just a few days. Yup. I got the best end of it!
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He knows what’s more important 🙂 I always feel that those who focus too much on the receiving of flowers are wanting for regular affection and love.
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You said a lot in very few words.
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Thank you, Vartika
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I see a few ways to read this. One could read it as literal cluttering and decluttering, deciding what’s important enough to keep and insignificant enough to shed. It could also be a relationship where one tries to make up for his/her shortcomings with grand gestures instead of consistently providing the basics. I can even see it being a hybrid where a relationship is ending and they’re dividing up the stuff. Of course, I do overthink things.
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Most interesting! I love that you see all these potential scenarios. And they could be any of them, too. 🙂
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Oh this is so so so true. The little things, lifting up not pushing down, make all the difference. Why tear down when you can build up! Thank you for the poignant reminder!
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Thank you, Laurie. Glad you liked 🙂
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